The best state of life

Life is both short and long, we have encountered many stumbling things on the road of life, and have experienced the hardships and joys of the earth.

If we always live in the past and have something in mind that we can't let go of, then we are destined to pass by with a good life.

The best way to live is to let go of the past, hide your heart and do everything in life.

Why do people have worries? Many of the worries are given to them by themselves. The energy of a person is limited, and you can't do anything to make anyone happy. Let the past go with the wind, get out of your obsessions and let yourself go.

01 How can we let go of the past?

We can recall the past and can look back on the past, but we do not deep into the past for a long time and can not let go. If you really can't let go, then use the time to smooth it all out. I think you should shake hands with the past, and when you think of the past, you have to remind yourself that the past has become the past, whether it's good or bad, and the past can never go back.

I have a couple of friends, who used to be best friends, but because of a joke, they broke off their friendship for 10 years.

It happened at a friend's birthday party, my friend A saw friend B happily pull friend B introduced to other people, only to see A happily say: "This is my best friend B." But I did not expect friend B then returned a sentence: "I'm afraid we do not know each other, right? " Although just a joke, in the then A blow is very big, she was just divorced, a person with a baby still needs care, mood and life are very bad, this time she is very vulnerable, the friend B's words can be deeply hurt A, from then on, A and B cut off the friendship, not in communication.

And last Christmas, B took the initiative to find A, said that the late ten years of sorry. And A's life and mind are very stable at this time, she generously said: "I know you were joking back then, but that hurt me, I finally waited for your apology, I forgive you."

02 Hide your heart

I wonder if you have found that there are some things that you can only know and bear by yourself, and some things that you can only say to yourself.

Although your experience may be wonderful, you encounter things that only you can feel your emotions, others can not empathize with you.

Although you have a lot of pain inside and a lot of bumps in the road, in the eyes of others, you are no different from the usual.

In your most downtime please do not feel free to talk to others about your suffering, many people just hold a joking attitude to listen to your story.

All the difficulties in life need to be endured by yourself, life's hurdles need to be cracked by yourself, hide the softness inside you, make yourself strong, sleep well, tomorrow is a new you.

03 Do everything right

Life will encounter a lot of things big and small, you just need to insist on doing everything, which is the fastest way to success. Every good thing you do will accumulate in your body, you will make yourself better, grow faster, and do a good job in life everything, only to harvest a different life.

Everyone in this world is only a few short decades, whether it was good or bad, have turned the page in the past, let go of once, let go of the past, do not blame themselves, go forward; hide their inner softness, so that others can not hurt you; do a good job in everything in life, step forward every step, harvest a good life.