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Speaking Volumes In Silence

Taming Our Inner Beast

By Saiful IslamPublished 2 years ago • 6 min read
Speaking Volumes In Silence
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In the obsession of speaking up, we have forgotten that silence is a thing. In the noise of constant din, be the whisper. However, there are moments when silence carries more of a force than any spoken word could ever muster; particularly the kind that resonates throughout our core. Enter Leah Rivers, who not only learned how to find her voice without a word but the power and beauty of silence.

Chapter 1: The Noise of the Living

Leah Rivers was always quiet. As a young child, my mom was referred to as quiet, shy or even timid. She only raised her hand very rarely in school, she sat way in the back watching all the other kids argue and talk. At home she was the listener while her siblings commanded dinner table conversation. Not that Leah lacked opinions; rather, she had no compulsion to communicate them verbally.

Leah did not go unnoticed; as she aged her hushed demeanor was ever more irritating. Everyone around her seemed to prize volume, extroversion and commanding presence. Professors at her college would urge her to speak up, friends insisted that she needed to be more extroverted, and job interviews even left her feeling inferior for not being the assertive, vocal candidate that employers seemed to favor.

Leah began to doubt herself. Was her silence a weakness, and was that something she needed to change? And the everywhere she looked, everyone was saying essentially the same thing: in order to get ahead she needed to speak up more, be bolder, be noisier. Yet Leah couldn’t make herself be something she was not, Try as she might. It felt as though her silence was a part of her, something that she could not just walk away from.

Chapter 2: The Breaking Point

When Leah started working in corporate, the pressure to fit in was at an all-time high. Now she had a job at one of those big marketing firms, the kind where being gregarious was an asset and ideas that strayed from the norm were encouraged. For Leah, her natural quiet demeanor set her apart from her colleagues but not in the way she intended. Promotions passed her by, she was ignored at meetings and shut out of conversations or left off email chains because people categorized her as someone with nothing to say.

Leah remembered a meeting that was particularly charged, and it snapped her last straw. Leah listened, quiet as her colleagues debated the future of a flagship project. She knew a potential solution that she was confident could ease the tension, but stayed silent. Her ideas had been dismissed every time she tried before, after all.

It was a meeting that dragged on and every minute the tension in the room was rising. Eventually a coworker said to Leah, Well, do you have anything to say, or are you just going to sit there?

The comment stung. All eyes in the room fell on Leah, as if she was going to fall forward or back. For a split second she contemplated calling out, anything to show that she was not unnoticeable. But then something changed in her.

Leah just nodded and held her ground instead of feeling pressured to speak. Everyone stopped talking, the room went quiet, and for the first time people actually looked at her—actually looked at her. Leah came to understand that her silence did not equate to weakness, but rather to control. She wasn't afraid to voice her opinion­—rather, she chose not to—and in this choice drew more ear than any loudest mouse here.

Chapter 3: The Quiet Strength

The meeting got Leah thinking differently about her silence. But she stopped trying to be louder or more forceful and leaned into the power of being quiet. She discovered that her words had more impact when she determined when to speak. So when she did say something, folks listened because they knew Leah was not speaking to be heard—she had a purpose.

And she came to realise that her quiet strength was in fact her greatest gift. Leah learned to excel in her leadership, not by yelling over the staff but by presenting sage, thoughtful insights when they were truly needed. She became known as a woman who did not speak often, but when she spoke her voice held a power and peace that silenced the cacophony.

Outside of her job Leah started to think about how silence could be a form of power elsewhere in her life. She started meditating, bringing ease to a silence that had once felt so lonely. She experienced more time outdoors, in which the silent beauty of nature mirrored how her internal peace had always envisioned itself.

Leah began to reframe her silence — no longer seeing it as a barrier she had to break down, but as her superpower, something that helped her learn and digest the world most people miss out on.

Silence against Adversity — Chapter 4

Leah's new-found acceptance of silence was challenged when her mum became critically ill. The diagnosis shattered Leah, and for some time her family members responded to the news in similar disarray—fuming with rage, attempting to discuss their grief, or simply disappearing from view. For Leah, amidst the turmoil, she started to look inside for meaning; her silence working its strength against the weight of her emotions.

Her family had a hard time finding the words to say when Leah was often just sitting with her mother holding her hand quietly in the hospital. When those moments hit, Leah knew that words weren't always required. And her being there, comfortable and quiet was good enough.

Leah’s mom has always understood her need for quiet, she’d said. “You don’t have to say anything, Leah. I know you’re here.” Those few words reminded Leah of what she now understood: that silence does not equal absence or inadequacy. It denoted presence, strength and compassion.

Leah remained the quiet rock her family needed even with her mom growing sick. Without fanfare, she set up appointments, exported heaps of paperwork and dealt with the day-to-day business side of things. Where others faltered under the pressures of their imaginations, Leah held tight to reality and the calm strength she had spent her entire life mounting.

When Words Fall Silent: A Stranger or Two Ch. 5

Leah had become accustomed to the idea, then her mum died and she thought about all that had happened. The noise of life — how hard it is to get attention when you are not loud; the resilience she erected around herself. Throughout the film, she learns that her silence had never been a weakness to be conquered but rather his greatest strength.

So Leah wrote a book about her experiences, not to be the next Marie Kondo but for anyone else who felt that they had lived in a world which shrunk them where noise is more appreciated than silence. In When Silence Speaks Louder Leah examined quiet strength, the courage to know when to speak up or stay silent, and how one can use their voice in a land that hardly hears those who don't yell.

The book struck a chord with millions who had battled a sense of inferiority because their personality was out of alignment with loud, extroverted success. Leah’s story provided a reframing for them as remembrance of the fact that silence can be as powerful, if not more so, than language.

Conclusion

Leah Rivers’s journey proves the ability of silence and also strength within. Leah learned, in a world that often values volume over character, that she wasn't facing an obstacle challenge to overcome but rather that her quiet personality was a treasure chest of power and insight. She learnt that silence is louder than words and sometimes all a person needs is the tranquillity, contemplation and empathy of someone who knows what to say without saying anything.

Her journey is proof that strength doesn't always roar, sometimes it just breathes. It is in punishing silence that with everything else paused to hear, the only voice heard is of silence.

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    Written by Saiful Islam