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No explanation is also a kind of maturity

Sometimes, there is no need to explain many things.

By Gloria TurnerPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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No explanation is also a kind of maturity
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There is no empathy between people, just like what I endure, what I insist on, what I love, you may not understand.

If the person who understands me well will certainly understand what I am worried about, if not, then he does not care what I do.

There is a good saying: "In this world, there is a sadness that can not shed tears, this sadness can not be explained to people. Even if the explanation, people may not understand"

Sometimes the explanation is a very unnecessary thing, really understand your people, do not have to say more, also understand your thoughts; do not understand your people, say more, also simply will not pay attention to you.

So, rather than wasting time desperately trying to explain to people who don't understand you, it's better to work hard to do well for yourself.

Please look down on those bad things, ignore those who comment on you, don't care about other people's comments, try to be yourself, and love yourself.

This life is actually very short, being criticized is actually no big deal, if you care too much about other people's views, then living is too tiring.

There is no need to argue with people, and there is no need to waste time explaining, that what is wrong or right, is in your heart.

There are many things in this world without a specific measure, I set the standard for myself: if you feel right, that thing is right, no need to doubt yourself, follow your heart, and live a little simpler.

Because any person, there will be misunderstood time, of course, any decision, may also be opposed.

Too much concern about other people's views, by the complex gossip, then it is better to choose to quiet the mind, to respond with practical action.

What you are, will always be found by others, do not have to deliberately explain, and do not have to please anyone, you just need to do your own, ask for a clear conscience on it.

Not explaining, is a kind of wisdom.

People standing at the bottom of the mountain, never see the shocking scenery at the top of the mountain, often living next to a small river, never understanding how magnificent the waves of the sea are.

The level is different, the pattern is different, and there is no need to explain somewhat.

People in this life will meet a variety of people. The differences in insight, cognition, and pattern, will certainly cause the three views and insights to be different.

When some people are still wandering in the same place, there are some people's visions, but it is very long-term.

You have to know that not everyone in this world can walk side by side with you and stand at the same height.

There are some things, there are some words, is the need to speak to people who can understand, this is a kind of wisdom.

On the road of life, there are too many disturbances, there is no need to argue, rather than fight for breath, there is no need to explain, rather than go to action.

Really smart people, never live in the mouth of others and do not care to live in the eyes of others.

If you want to live a wonderful life, what you need is not to explain and argue, but to be open and honest, not ashamed of your heart, and do a good job.

A philosopher once said, "You will never know how many versions you have in other people's mouths."

The more you explain, the more others will think you are weak-minded, the more you argue, the easier it is to end up being hurt.

No need to explain, people who understand you will naturally understand, but do not understand you, there is no need to explain.

Sometimes, the explanation is also a kind of maturity.

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Gloria Turner

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Like to travel, love life

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