Love yourself, is the beginning of happiness

Most people grow up receiving education, more "how to love others" respect for teachers, helpers, understanding ...... to others good engraved into the bones, a little eccentric themselves seem to be selfish.

The majority of people's selfishness is also derived from "loving others" and wanting to get some attention from them.

However, spend more time with others, but also can not get the happiness they want.

Instead of pleasing others, learn to love yourself and love yourself in every aspect of your life.

Perhaps the process is difficult, but you can find true happiness, and no longer be condescending.

No one is perfect, no gold is perfect, perhaps we are not perfect, but is a unique existence, learn to love themselves from the bottom of their hearts, to affirm they're good, to find the beauty of life, from which to obtain true happiness.

1、Love yourself, do not compare

In life, we will always encounter the situation of being compared, once or twice, but okay, over time they will also slowly on the heart, think as long as the win over others is to win, slowly forget the meaning of life.

Always can not help but to compare themselves with others, as if good and bad only through comparison can be reflected, but forget that life is their own, not someone else's, a than than than than ...... will only add unnecessary worries to themselves.

The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.

Either way, it is invariably affecting our normal life, constantly climbing, will only let yourself live as a puppet of desire, when you will no longer be yourself, not to mention love yourself, even love others are not qualified.

Climbing is endless, win one, there will be the next opponent appear ...... again how hard, you may lose.

Matthew Sayid said.

"If we can't change our perception of failure, the desire for success can only be a futile exercise."

Unable to properly understand failure, you cannot learn from it. Constantly climbing the ladder will only end up facing defeat.

Instead of this, learn to properly deal with winning and losing, the comparison with others as a test, no matter whether win or lose can learn from the experience, and constantly improve can.

To understand how good you are, there is room for improvement, only love yourself, to "better" step forward.

Each small progress is a breakthrough in self.

2、Love yourself, be yourself

Each person is a unique existence, there is no need to go for other people to compromise themselves.

As if you do not like to do things, do not want to do them, do not force yourself to do them because of others, in the end, will only make you unhappy.

On the previous class trip to the beach to play, when some people go, some do not go, I did not want to go, because I do not like to go out with unfamiliar people to play, but I play better students want to go, I had no choice but to agree, thinking at least to leave a good memory it.

I never thought that after going, what I got was not good, but unpleasant memories, not sleeping well, not eating well, the whole person is very uncomfortable.

Every time I look back, what I get is regret, and it still hasn't changed.

Later I understood that there is no need to force yourself to do things you don't like.

There is that time to socialize with others, it is better to do what you like to do.

The road is not the same, there is no need to please others, to approach the circle that does not suit you, do not want to do things.

Real happiness is to take the path you want to take and do what you want to do.

Life is only a few decades, love yourself, do yourself, is the thing to do.

3、Love yourself, love life

Living is not a simple matter, there may be a variety of problems at any time.

Sweet, sour, bitter, spicy, and salty, all five flavors, just a matter of more and less.

We can not escape, we can only choose to face it.

At that time you will find that, in addition to yourself, no one can rely on you, and then hard to get through only by yourself.

You see, we can only rely on ourselves, and how can we not spend more thought on loving ourselves?

Life is so hard, you still do not love yourself, and how can you get through?

As long as you learn to love yourself, you can find the beauty of life in it.

In the life of suffering, there is also a touch of sweetness.

The most important thing is that you have to love yourself from now on. Love life! Be a better version of yourself!