Live, learn to please yourself

Each encounter is a new beginning.

Amid trials and tribulations, some people get more and more frustrated, some people give up halfway, and some people fall on themselves ......

Different choices have different causes and effects.

Whether the final is happy, or unhappy, in fact, on their own, in the end, live happily or not.

Sometimes, forcing yourself to do things you don't like, even if you do succeed, your heart will not be much happier.

Life is short, forcing yourself to become better, it is better to live with your heart, to please yourself, to be a better version of yourself.

No principle of obedience is pretending to live

To be a human being, you can't have any principles, or you're either hurting others or hurting yourself.

In him is the possibility of mutiny at any time, in their own is another person's inch.

As Haruki Murakami wrote in "When I talk about running, what do I talk about": "Violating the principles you set, even once, will later violate more principles."

Very often, if you go against your principles and give in, again and again, you will only end up hurting yourself.

I heard a friend say that once she went to the dessert house with her classmates to eat afternoon tea, lucky enough to stumble upon a four-seat card table, which was sitting well, but I did not expect two girls to walk by and say they want to take the table, not because there is no place, but do not want to sit at the bar.

I don't know if it's a brain fart, or what, I agreed at that time, and then said that the people who took the table were the main guests, and ordered food to occupy the whole table, so that my friend finally had to go to the bar to sit in silence.

In hindsight, they all felt that they should not have agreed at that time they did not want to sit with strangers, but because they were embarrassed to refuse and agreed, and in the end, the only ones who suffered were themselves.

No matter how the outside world, we should be most concerned about our feelings, otherwise always force ourselves to settle for others, what fun is there to live, but just pretending to live?

To be a person, learn to love yourself to have the ability to be loved.

If you're willing to give in to yourself, you'll only end up living as an accessory to others.

Live with principles to live your own life.

Dare to reject others to be true to yourself

The fact is that you should not listen to everything, do not agree to anyone's request, do not get to agree, some things should be asked clearly, and at the same time ask yourself whether you want to help or not, can help.

If you don't want to, why make it difficult for yourself?

If you're going to hold a grudge, you're not going to be a friend.

A true friend will not doubt friendship by refusing to help.

Therefore, it is better to spend more time pleasing others than to try to be a better version of yourself and let the circle come to you automatically.

For their own can not do or do not want to help, there is no need to compromise to save face, a compromise will only feed the greed of others.

There used to be a good old man in the street office, as long as someone came to the door for help, he would help.

Once or twice okay, the most fear is that some people have nothing to seek help for, even their parents are old enough to see a doctor, and will excuse themselves from time, to find him help.

He is the wrongdoer, but also has a good reputation, poor are his relatives, each living a very hard life, would have lived on his share of the salary, but did not think he earned are "for" others to spend.

However, do not overestimate the seriousness of the matter, thinking that rejecting others will leave a shadow on others, and in time everything will become a thing of the past.

If you don't want to do it, you should be brave enough to refuse and take the first step to being more true to yourself.

Life is short, it is better to please others than to please yourself

Although life is very bitter, getting over it will become promising.

Everything that cannot be passed will eventually become the past.

The person lives a life, say more live for others, but also can not top "live for themselves".

Although people live in many identities, the first we have is only themselves.

Don't paralyze yourself for some purpose, on the mountain more, eventually meet the tiger, wrong is wrong.

There is more remorse, but also than those who are still struggling military wives.

Life is their own, how to live by their own decision.

Do not want to please others, and find reasons to avoid responsibility, wrong should be recognized.

The first thing you need to do is to live, to please others, rather than to please yourself.