Life doesn't have to be perfect

As the saying goes: "Gold is bare, and no one is perfect. Everyone is imperfect, and everyone has a side they don't want to be touched, whether physically or psychologically, sometimes we don't even want to meet ourselves. Yes, then no one dares to call themselves perfect or near perfect.

In the short years of life, there are indeed many things that are not perfect. Some people will choose to accept imperfection, work hard, and build a strong, pure and unchanging heart, so that we will reap a complete and happy life. On the other hand, some people are full of complaints, full of complaints, or lethargic, and they are helpless; they regard those unsatisfactory things in life as a kind of regret, and when the pain in life is magnified, life seems to be dark, and some people choose to commit suicide and say goodbye to life... Even if the mentality has developed limbs and a strong body, how can it be called perfect?

People's life needs to go through many stages, and each stage has many unsatisfactory places. Failing to get into an ideal university, failing to find a job you like, and having difficulty meeting the person you like... These all constitute imperfections in our lives. Complaining, being disheartened, and being insensitive are all useless. The only way out is to accept it calmly from the bottom of your heart and try to make it closer to the perfection in your mind.

A person who always wants to do a good job in front of his boss will ask you to do 12 points next time. A woman who wants to be a good wife and mother will bring breakfast to the table every ten years. , If one day suddenly let the husband go to serve the porridge, the husband may throw the cup off in anger. It's all because of the obsession with making things too perfect. Too much pursuit of perfection means losing yourself and putting a heavy burden on the soul.

Being imperfect doesn't mean you don't work hard, don't make progress, you don't need to be strong when you're weak, you don't need to be jealous when you see others succeed, but pretend to be indifferent, and you don't need to be in a recession. I want to buy a brand-name car to decorate the facade. There is no such thing as a 100% perfect life. So imperfection is life.

There are many people who complain that life is not perfect. They are either dissatisfied with their job, boss and income, or complain about society, family or relatives and friends. In fact, there are no perfect people and things in the world, and everyone has their own scriptures that are difficult to read.

There is so-called "defective beauty" in aesthetics, which not only does not destroy the overall beauty, but makes the original beauty more beautiful, because such beauty is closer to nature and reality. All things in the world are not perfect, people have joys and sorrows, the moon is full of yin and sunshine, since the reality is not perfect, then we don't have to be demanding, but learn to be detached, optimistic and open-minded, not to blame others, not to care about others, not to compare with jealousy, and more. Don't give up the pursuit, life doesn't have to be perfect, as long as you keep making progress and constant pursuit, only in this way can you live happily, easily, and live the meaning of life, so life doesn't have to be perfect.