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How To Take Control of Your Life| 3 Powerful Ways

“Freedom is control in your own life.”

By Arsalan HaroonPublished 3 years ago 5 min read
How To Take Control of Your Life| 3 Powerful Ways
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This article is for those who want to know how they take control of their life. So they change their victim mindset to a leadership mindset and take decisions that will change their life. So how to take control of your life?

Everyone wants to control their life, But the problem is, they just don't do these things that will help them take control in life. Most people's feelings and emotions are controlled by other people. So if they want you to be sad, You will and, if they want you to feel alone, You will because you give them the power to control your life.

So do not give other people much power to control your life, Because if you give them then, you become more alone and you feel that you just lost everything. The only person who deserves to take control of your life and make you successful is you.

No one makes you successful, because others are chasing their dreams. So it’s a time to take control of your life before it gets too late and you regret it later. So let’s know how to take control of your life, So you make your life successful and, You achieve what you want in life.

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Make a Habit of Learning New Things

“Those people who develop the ability to continuously acquire new and better forms of knowledge that they can apply to their work and to their lives will be the movers and shakers in our society for the indefinite future.” – Brain Tracy

Learning new things will not only help you to become successful. But also open your mind to control your life, If you make a habit of learning new things.

Most people just learn something in their school, university and, they think it is enough for them to become successful in life. But it is Not, because the real-world knowledge you only get when you work into this real-world and learn real-life lessons from it.

You need to become a lifelong learner and learn different fields. So you can know what is good or bad for you. Let say you have some work that is not related to your skill. But still, you need to complete that task. So instead of going to someone and dependent on them.

You can learn that skill by yourself, I know you can not master every skill. But at least you can learn a basic of every skill, so if you got into this type of situation you can handle it. If you have some basic knowledge of that skill.

Learning new things will also help you make a logical decision and change your skills. So you can adapt to the change in the industry. Most people just stick with the skills which they learned 10-15 years ago.

But today where the industry is changing rapidly. So it is essential to learn new things, it is might possible that this change will affect your job so find new skills who have massive demand in the future, it is good to have a backup. So if something happened to your job then you switch to that path.

Do Not Afraid of Failure In Life

Thomas Edison failed 1,000 when he first invented the light bulb, Failure in life is part of success. so do not lose control in life when you failed just think about what you learn from that failure in life. If you do not learn from it, Then it's a big issue.

But if you focus on what you learn from this failure. It will help you get new ideas and try different stuff in your field. So no matter how much you face failure in life. If in the end, you become successful. No one sees your failures, people only see success.

So do not be afraid of failure in life, most people do not start their career. Because they think that they fail in this and, Yes you fail. But it does not mean you quit. It is a part of success in life, most successful people have failed more than their success. But no one sees that people only see their successful life.

Just start, If you fail, it is a lesson that you need to learn from that failure in life. It will help you make fewer mistakes in the future, which will give you more experience. So you can achieve your success in life and take control of your life.

Accurate Thinking

“Clear thinking requires courage rather than intelligence.” — Thomas Szasz

Thinking plays a crucial role in how to take control of your life. Because it will help you make both great and terrible decisions. It is essential to know that accurate thinking is over daily life activity. All people think, but the problem is they do not think accurately, so what this means.

Most people think about unimportant things daily in their life. Which does not matter. For example, What shirt I wear today and thinking about unimportant things. First, before you think about anything, just ask yourself. If this thinking is giving any influence on my life and, before you think about the information you learn about something, Confirm that information is correct or not.

If that information is correct, then think about that topic and decide according to that. This is called accurate thinking, but most people do not care much about this. But it is essential because thinking is a part of our daily life. So it is crucial to learn accurate thinking, So you can never waste your time, thinking about unimportant stuff and misinformation.

Conclusion

Learn these things before it gets too late in controlling your life, Most People don't know how to take control of their life, still, they know what things are to need them to do to take control of their lives and make decisions according to what is good for you.

Don’t give anyone much power to control your life, It will make your life terrible. Remember, the only person who can help you achieve your success is you.

  • Make a habit of learning new things
  • Accurate thinking
  • Do not afraid of failure in life

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