Head down, is another kind of growth

Some people are afraid to see it, it's too late to hide; some people are more and more courageous, from which they get transformed and achieve a better self.

Although it is a personal choice, but who does not want to become better, just when the selfish desire to dominate, people become irrational, knowing that it is not for it.

What people are most afraid of, is the impulse under the difficult self.

When you're young, you can still be capricious, but in middle age, everything has scruples, not want to do it can do, more is to seek stability.

Many times tolerate a moment of peace, a step back to the sea and the sky, to retreat, not to lose good strategy.

1. head down, is growing

It is said that "a stick swept over, the wisest approach is to bow down." Seems to be a goose, but is smart.

Rather than hard, it is better to be soft to overcome the hard, to retreat.

When you go to a stall at night, you will occasionally encounter one or two drunken, drunken provocations, if you are then angry, go forward and his theory, is undoubtedly a chicken and duck talk.

Say more can not wake up drunk people, entangled too much, but is asking for trouble, the light is bad mood tonight, the heavy will cause a brawl.

The face of provocation, bear over it is good, there is no need to use the fault of others to punish themselves, appropriate low, is the real smart.

Others say more provocations, do not take it to the heart can not hurt you.

Too much care, but easy to hurt.

I have seen a kind of people, the most good at verbal provocation, playing soft and weak to win the sympathy of men, with provocation to stimulate the love rival to strike, to force each other to hit or export curses, to create the illusion of being a victim.

If you are not careful, you will be misunderstood as a "bully".

This is the best approach, in fact, not to dislike back, but "shut up", not to argue too much with it.

In life in the world, not everything can be straightforward, occasionally bowed, or shut up, but is another form of response.

2. Waiting is saving

The longer you live, the more difficulties you will encounter.

Not all difficulties can be solved by "bravery", more by strength, in their strength is not enough, rather than hard, why not quietly learn?

Not because of failure to retreat, but because of failure to grow, learn from the experience, for the next win to build up strength.

Thick and thin, downward rooted, to grow.

When the young suffered, will eventually become nutrients to feed the future.

Success, not overnight, but the process of accumulation, those who have read, encountered things, suffered ...... will become an important experience in life.

From weakness to strength, it is a long process.

Build up strength, wait for opportunities, and seek to be better.

Don't be overwhelmed by success, know how to wait, know how to accumulate, know how to cherish, to achieve a better self.

3. Self-control, is self-discipline

In "A Thousand and One", Chihiro's parents were tempted by the food and ate the food without the owner's permission, and after a frenzy of eating, they finally became two pigs.

The soup lady said, "Having enjoyed the food that should not have belonged to you, you can only become two pigs to offset it."

Life is not like that, indulge in desire, and eventually will be consumed by desire, become unlike a human being, ghosts do not look like ghosts.

Think that it is a green road, but do not know that it may be the road of no return.

In the indulgence of desire, people go far away and can not return, and lose not only their current possessions but also may be the "future" to lose in.

Shakespeare said, "Desire is like a charcoal fire; it must be cooled, or the fire will scorch the heart."

Instead of indulging, we should restrain.

Learn to restrain your desires to control your life.

The self-control of self is also the self-discipline of life.

If you want to become better, you have to be "tough" on yourself.