Going To The Real

I am having a quiet and laid back day today.....at least for a little bit. So, I thought I would pop on here and see what's been going on.

I wish I hadn't. No fewer than 50 people have called to see how we are because I have been largely absent from social media. There is a reason for it. Life. I have been extremely busy with life. Thanks for the concern, though. I love kindness.

You know what I strongly dislike? Little spoiled entitled brats griping endlessly because their "man done 'em wrong." Buckle up, babies, I am about to lay some hard truths on you. I realize your little butts might feel the burn, but guess what? No one cares! YOU EARNED IT. You know what you have NOT earned? All that you demand. That's right, just because you DEMAND top shelf does not mean you are ENTITLED to it. You get what you EARN.

Endlessly, you post about what you want in a man, how you want to be treated by a man, and how you expect to be treated by a man. Let's break it down into idda-bitta pieces your stoned out brain can grasp.

HARD TRUTH #1: Quality Attracts Quality. Yep, truth. If you toss your kids away like yesterday's trash, blow out all of your major organs with booze and drugs, remain uneducated and gutter-mouthed, THAT'S what you will attract. You will attract a similar version of who you are. If you are slovenly, trashy, unkempt, undisciplined and untrained, that's what you sow, and so you shall reap. Straighten yourself up. If you need help getting going, help is available. The second you start groveling in your own pity and excrement? Party over, sweet cheeks. And you earned it.

HARD TRUTH #2: YOUR ATTITUDE IS A DIAMOND OR A WARNING SIGN TO OTHERS- YOU CHOOSE WHICH. If you can't wipe your own dirty butt and someone helps you out, the LAST thing you should do is treat that hand up like you deserve it and more. No one owes you a damn thing. You owe yourself EVERYTHING. Make your own way. Be grateful for those who are kind and caring to you through your journey. They took time out to care about YOU. Trust me, they probably had better things to do and better places to spend the money. Be GRATEFUL. Kindness is NOT something you are entitled to. Say thank you. Often. Let your grateful spirit shine like diamonds.

HARD TRUTH #3: YOU WILL BE ASSESSED ON YOUR MANNERS, ATTITUDE, AND MENTAL CLARITY: Successful people share certain traits with people who have happy relationships. Discipline, decorum, focus, drive, mental clarity and a duty to responsibility (also known as work ethic and/or ADULTING) all top the list. If you dwell in the gutter like so much New York subway trash, do NOT expect a man of quality to look at you and say, "WOW! I would be proud to be with her." Ain't gonna happen.

HARD TRUTH #4: 99% OF THE HOLES WE LAND IN WE DIG FOR OURSELVES. Yep. We reap what we sow. Sometimes life hands out a few zingers and left hooks, but if you are SMART, you will learn from ALL of them and stop repeating the same BS behavior that landed you in deep holes. Whining about it will not fix it. Getting petted on the head will not fix it. No one gives two cents about how many likes your whining gets. Being popular on social media is the equivalent of being the cool kid in the psych ward. You want change? You want better? GET OFF YOUR ASS AND WORK FOR IT.

In summary, sharing bitter posts from "Bitches being Bitches" and the like will not draw anyone of quality into your life. Being a quality person does. Winners seek out winners. Losers attract losers. Your choice.

God bless, and peace out.