“Die. Alone.”
Slurred advice
given to me by a drunken
mid-forties engineer
while I’m freezing
at my roommates company holiday party.
Strangely somber
(unsolicited) advice
from a Santa hat wearing guy
who
judging by the three empty glasses in front of him
had plenty more to say on the matter.
Against my better
still sober judgement
I decide fuck it
this should be entertaining
and I ask drunken Gandhi
“what do you mean?”
He says
into the dregs of drink number four
again
“Die. Alone.”
but what he said next
would plague every decision I made from that day forward.
A weighted pause
before an almost whispered exodus
of pain riddled understanding
he said to me
“die alone,
before you settle.
Never settle.”
Words probably printed on some inspiring
bullshit poster
hanging above your unmade bed at home
never
have these words wrung home
as much as they did
coming from a man
searching for a silver lining
at the bottom of a cheap bar glass.
Eyes haunted
by a failed marriage
littered with warning signs.
He said
“you
have fucking WORTH.
But if you let someone else define the amount of it
you will always be a glass of half empty
shitty whiskey
waiting
like some accessory on The Price Is Right
for someone to guess what that worth might be.
He said you’ll always be running
chasing
some version of the future you can see coming
but can’t quite reach.
Because you stopped to rest
in a city called
“Well At Least I’m Not Alone Anymore”
and decided that “it didn’t quite fit for shit
but it’ll do.”
You settled.
You said you never would.
But you settled.
You shot for the moon
so you could at least land among the starts
but the stars
aren’t the fucking moon!
They’re just burning gas
and chances are
they’re dead anyway.”
He said “I’m sorry kid
this life
ain’t gonna be rose buds and Cheers
but that’s no excuse
for taking the road
that doesn’t lead to overcoming your fears.”
He said, “I knew it was wrong.
That we didn’t fit together
like Nintendo game cartridges
in Playstation disc slots
we weren’t apples and oranges
we were stagnant rivers and spilled oil.
We didn’t compliment each other
only took two problematic beings
and made them worse.
But I thought
if I could build up a dam tall enough
we could at least keep our mess contained.
That with time,
we could sift through the bullshit
and find meaning.
But I found
that when you build your walls up with excuses
there will always be cracks
waiting
to be filled by the shit that’s really missing.
When you don’t know who you are
you find yourself saying things like
‘She’s not that bright
but hey she’s easy on the eyes.’
‘He’s not that romantic,
but at least he’s not violent”
He said “when you find yourself making a list of pros and cons
ask yourself
“am I still on my way to the moon
or am I just playing around with an old flame?”
I didn’t know what to say.
To take back the hundreds of times he must have asked himself
“who am I
to want more than this?”
So I just said
“I’m sorry.
Love
can be a tragedy.”
He said, “she was never trying to hurt me
she was simply being who she could be around me.
I hurt myself
by thinking that if I commit to an script
with an actress I knew didn’t fit
that the ending would somehow be different.
Kid
you only get on shot at this
and I know
I may seem like a drunken mess
but I know the difference
between good enough
and true happiness.
Don’t wait for a divorce to teach you this.
You have WORTH kid
but you have to find it for yourself.
Otherwise
you wind up an exhausted engineer
forty years closer to the grave than when you started
fucking freezing your balls off
at some shitty holiday party
that settled.
Never settle.”
Well I still didn’t know what to say
so into the silence
I just said “thanks
can I get you another drink?”
About the Creator
S.C. Says
S.C. Says is an Austin based slam poet who has been performing slam poetry since 2013. He's toured and featured at venues and universities across the country, and his poetry has been viewed over 700,000 times.
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