Being considerate of others' emotions is a high level of charm

It is a very high level of charm to make the other person feel comfortable in a relationship with them.

There are some people with whom you interact in the process of his behavior that makes you feel comfortable, so you are willing to become good friends with such people. If you are lucky enough to have such a friend, then congratulations.

Letting people feel comfortable is not to let ourselves lower the bottom line, to please others, but from the heart can stand in each other's point of view to consider each other's feelings.

People with good quality education know how to get along with people and know how to get along to make each other feel comfortable.

I once read a story like this.

A mother was cooking in the kitchen and she needed to use a fruit knife, so she asked her son to hand her the knife, but the son didn't care and casually picked up the tip of the fruit knife and rushed towards the mother, accidentally poking her.

The mother stopped the bleeding and said to her son meaningfully: "Son, you are already a big boy, there are some truths you need to understand, when passing sharp and dangerous objects to others, consider how the other party receives this thing, if you pass the tip of the knife to others it is easy to accidentally hurt others, and it is also very inconvenient for others to take up, so you help to pass sharp objects in the next So the next time you help pass sharp objects, you must put yourself in other people's shoes, okay?" My son nodded his head in ignorance and took his mother's words to heart from then on.

Very often, the character of some people is reflected in various small things, which have nothing to do with education or age.

Some people can always put themselves in the other person's shoes and make them feel warm and comfortable, they never leave anything to chance and never make others feel uncomfortable and embarrassed.

How can we make people feel comfortable?

This kind of thing is not deliberately to do something, nor is it the mouth to do something they do not want to do, not to mention the false smile.

It's about being comfortable and not being embarrassed by the other person.

Anyone would like to be treated gently by others, but the premise is that we also need to be loving and gentle so that we can harvest warmth.

But kindness is not to treat everyone as so, we only put a limited amount of energy into worthy people enough, there is no need to can please anyone, after all, there are some people who are not worthy of our gentle treatment. You are good to me, I will be doubly good to you, if you are not good to me, then I do not need to go to you, the human society is so, sincere for sincere to harvest a meaningful relationship.

Because life is not a competition, there is no win or lose, we do not need to argue about something when we treat things with a sincere heart, it will be easy to harvest more sincere, when we understand these things, then how to make people feel comfortable is no longer a difficult task.

Making people feel comfortable in interaction with them is a very unusual skill, and is also a recognition of one's good character.

May the world have more warmth and love, and may our true hearts not be mispaid, and eventually reap more love and warmth.