Are you alive?

I am a free person, whenever I want to do something, I plan it and do it. It can be a plan to travel, learn new skills, create my own business out of the hustle, and many more things.

I go out to meet people interact with them so I know what else to learn and explore, that's how I stay alive and live my life to the full extend.

If you think, I was always like this, NOOOOO!!!

I was never like this. If you could have seen me before 5 years, I was all over the place. Crying for others' help, complaining about problems I have, never learning new skills, never going out to talk with people, or even explore my options.

The change!!!

I changed so much not because other people inspired me but me-myself was looking for the way out of that pathetic life. If you think someone is going to come to rescue you from this mess, you are just digging a bigger hole for yourself.

You discover yourself from all the phases of life either happy or sad, easy or tough, solution or problem, whatever it is. Because you define yourself not by how others rescue you but by how you rescue yourself from situations.

"If you are ready to wait for some hero to arrive and miraculously solve your all problems, Just know that the hero you are waiting for is you yourself."

How to Become Alive?

To become alive and successful like me, you will have to pass through many failures and humility, just like I did.

I am not trying to scare you, just prepare you for what's coming on your way, actually on everyone's way.

If you are thinking that the bad things are happening only to you, you are never been so wrong. These bad and sad things are part of everyone's life, it's just that you don't know about the misery other peoples are going through.

First: Change your mindset

To change your mindset about yourself and about the problems you are facing is very important. Why? Because, if you do not think that you are strong enough to solve your own problems, and if you don't believe that every problem is made to solve, then you won't be able to break out.

You must know that every problem is just another puzzle, and every puzzle is solvable.

Second: Learn, Explore, Experience

To solve any problem, you must be aware of the whole situation. Analyze what are you going through, see what are you weak points that are getting affected by this problem.

For example, your partner just broke up with you and you are having an emotional breakdown. As we are humans and feel many things in every angle, you must be aware of how it affects you. Many people let this breakup partner affect their whole personal and career life and ruin their future possibilities. This way not only your partner ruin your relationship, but in addition to that your overwhelming, uncontrollable emotions ruined your whole life.

To get out of it, what you must do? Try and find a way to get out of that zone. Try to solve the problem instead of crying for help or sit and complain about your fate.

To solve any issue there are two ways:

1. Do research about the problem, see what all you can do to solve this problem.
2. Meet experience people to know more about the problem and learn a number of different ways to solve it.

Once you have found the solution to the problem, don't just hope over and try every way randomly. try to see which solution is most suitable for your problem and then try to apply it.

As you are solving your own problems, you will feel the electric energy running inside you. You will feel confident and positive.

Third: Don't Stop

Now as you start solving your problems, people will start noticing you. As they notice you doing something different that usually crying and complaining, they will start coming up with advice.

You must know how to face this random advice. You must not fall because someone, who can't even solve their own problem is stopping you from solving your problems.

People might be thinking good or bad, experienced or just putting out their opinion. These people at a time will seem so professional in "not solving the problem" and keep telling you to back off and let all go on the name of god and fate.

Now it's not that I do not believe in God, I do, that's why it is more important to try solving your problems, as God says, "If you can't help yourself, I can't help you!!!"

Fourth: Stay strong, help yourself and others.

Now you have become a hero to yourself!!!

It's the perfect time to learn how to stay strong because these negative people and their negative advice are never going to stop trying to divert you from the path of success.

To stay what you have become, an Hero, you must stay positive and solve some problems every day. This problem can be yours or others, read books, and find the pattern in your problems and in other problems as well.

Try to understand why these problems are arousing? Is it because of repeating the same mistake again and again or is it a completely new problem?

On this path of success, know that you might fail more than find success, but you must not give away the work you have started. Because the way to learn and become strong is through failure. Success is achieved only by passing through failure.

Now tell me, are you alive?