A Message For YOU

For everyone that's doubting themselves today, for the people that feel unwanted, to the once that feel like their live's have no value. Listen up.

Your value isn't about what salary the job you have get's you.

Nor, is it tied to how well you do in school our in sports.

It's not the amouth of friends that you have as if it where to be a popularity contest.

Neither is it the talents, you got our the amouth of money our wealth that you have. A person's true value isn't measured like that. Those are just metric's numbers, things to make something complicated simple, easy to understand, someting to be filed away in a box.

Truth is, if your anything like me, looking for that sweet approvel from people then your on the wrong way, you might feel disconnected desipite being surrounded by people. You might feel, like your chasing goals, that aren't even yours, and then you wonder, why do I feel so empty, why do I feel so burned out.

Thing is, these kind of feelings, might be not even obvious because, this life is what your used to. You are living it, from start. So you don't even notice it mostly. There are signs, sure but, the more likely is that you just take them as normal.

Being annoyed more then you should, feeling anxious our dread doing something, those aren't things to be annoyed. Those are signals for you to listen but, you turned that off long ago.

Things is all of those things, we think that gives us value don't really tell us anything.

Dictators had good jobs, a good career and, thousands of friends, celebs are considered to be wealthy and, the ones that have made it.

Yet, if that all where to be true, why are most of them so misserable?

Why are the people that we look up and, got to the goals we dreamed off not happy?

They have made it right?

Truth is we are living in a world, where everything is measured, our sleep, our steps our calories our identies are now tied to products, to groups, to gender to trends, to whatever else they can sell us.

But, here's the truth, identity isn't tied to gender, sexuality our even what family your from.

It's tied to you, to your true self, and who that is, well there's only one person truly deciding who that is, and it aren't those judging it, never having walked a day in your shoe's.

It's you who, you decide who you want to be.

And, people? They can tell you a million things, and some of those things might have value, some of them might hold you a mirror but, that's biased by the view they got. Someone looking for something will alway's think faster that something is there, if they just look hard enough for it.

Here's the truth, that no one likes to admit. No matter your IQ, what disabilities trauma, you got. You are born here on this planet.

Just like every other animal, just like every other creature, plant thing on this world and, just like those living here, we have value. Not because, anyone tells us that we do.

We where as natural to the planet as everything on it, the birds we see fly in the sky, the fish we see in the sea. You belonged here like everything else does you are as unique and, special as the other billions of people living here.

Yet, somewhere amongs the lines, around your vision lifetimes that vision. became blury, you started to listen and, look at others. Until you allowed human's to decide who you where, you shut out the world, and started to listen to judgments and, flaws.

Being useful if you can contribute, you are being useful if you study, if you can work.

Otherwise, just like a tool in a box, discarded, unwanted once broken, once defected, then they don't want you anymore.

Yet, they won't tell you this, it's a silent agreement. They will let you know.

Thing is, you aren't a tool, you weren't born just to be useful to others.

You where born, for many reasons maybe it is to bring goodness and, kindness in the world, why else would you have the ability to have empathy, even if that's just cognitive our maybe you where born for another purpose, and your simply at a crossroad where, your unsure where to go yet, maybe the goals you got aren't truly your own yet, sometimes we are at a moment, were we need our time seeking out what it is.

That's fine too, there's no need to hury even when things are unclear and, uncertain. Thing is, no one ever truly knows what the future might bring us and, how our lives would truly go.

So just take a breath and, calm yourself. It's going to be okay, things will work out for you.

Just don't give up yet when things aren't over, when there's still chance for your path to grow and blossom. When there's still so much hidden potential inside of you.

Your parents our your friends. Even when they haven't said it directly yet, if they knew, how far you come how much you have survived, how much you have gone through. Then I'm sure they would say their proud of you , I sure am.

So sit down take a breath, your doing great, everything will work out, stop filling your mind with what if's, you are going to be okay.