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The Feeling Of Entitlement In Life:

Why It's A Problem And What To Do About It

By Kabinga Charline MazabaPublished 2 months ago 5 min read

Have you ever come across people who think the rules don't apply to them? They're often self-absorbed and argumentative. They go out of their way to serve themselves, feeling as if they deserve better. They have an exaggerated sense of self-worth and feel as though they deserve special treatment.

These people can be difficult to deal with, especially when they start acting entitled. If you encounter someone like this, it's important to remember that the rules still apply to everyone, no matter how powerful or entitled they may feel. Be respectful and understanding, but also stand up for yourself when necessary.

Everyone has a different definition of entitlement, but at its core, it's the belief that you are entitled to something because you deserve it.

This can manifest itself in a number of ways, but one of the most common is feeling like you are better than others. Entitlement can have a negative impact on our lives in a number of ways.

What is the Feeling of Entitlement?

People can feel entitled in a variety of ways. Some people may feel entitled

to special treatment, such as getting their way without having to work for it.

Others may feel entitled to the things that other people have and believe they are not entitled to.

Still others may feel entitled because they think they are worth more than other people and deserve what they want or need.

There is no one right way to feel entitled, but all entitlement can lead to feelings of superiority. When someone feels entitled, it can create problems in their life because it often leads to arrogance, selfishness, and a lack of empathy for others.

There are many different ways people can feel entitled in life. Here are a few examples:

Feeling entitled to things you don't actually deserve, like money or possessions.

Feeling entitled to special treatment or preferential treatment because you think you're special.

Believing that your rights and privileges should automatically be granted to you, without any effort on your part.

Thinking that others should always do what you say or do what you want them to, without any consideration for their feelings or opinions.

Expecting things from other people without giving them a chance to reciprocate or even agree to it first.

Thinking that your opinions and feelings are the only ones that matter, and that everyone else should just conform to your way of thinking, behaving or way of life.

If you're feeling entitled in your life, it's important to recognize the signs so you can start to address them.

One sign you may be feeling entitled is if you frequently find yourself taking things for granted or treating people unfairly just because you think you should be able to.

Another sign is if you get angry easily when things don't go your way, or if you lash out at people who disagree with you or try to take away what you think is rightfully yours. You should try to improve your emotional resilience by, first, being aware of your own emotions. When you're able to identify what's going on with you, you'll be better able to manage your emotions. Second, learn how to self-soothe. This means finding ways to cope with uncomfortable feelings without relying on others or self-destructive behaviours. Finally, cultivate a positive outlook by seeing the good in yourself and your situation will help you maintain a strong sense of self even when things get tough.

If entitlement is a problem for you, there are many different ways to work on addressing it. You could try reading about entitlement and how it affects our lives, talking about the issue with friends and family members, or seeking out therapy or counselling services. No matter what approach works best for you, make sure to stay committed and focused on addressing the underlying

What to Do If You Feel Entitled

If you feel entitled, there are a few things you can do to curb that feeling.

First, try to determine why you feel entitled. Is it because you feel like you're always right? Or is it because you think your opinion is worth more than others? If the answer is based on what you think rather than what's true, then it's time to reassess your perspective.

Second, try to be aware of when you're starting to feel entitled. Are there certain people or situations that make you feel this way? If so, try to avoid them as much as possible. When we're entitlement-free, life becomes a lot more manageable and we can all get along better.

Finally, remember that entitlement doesn't always have to mean bad things. Sometimes it just means that someone feels a certain way and they deserve the right to have that feeling recognized and respected. So don't be afraid to speak up when you see someone being treated unfairly because of their entitlement attitude.

No matter what your age or experience, there is a feeling of entitlement that can come over us at different times. Whether it's because we feel like we're owed something by life itself, or someone else has done something to make us believe this, it's important to be aware of the ways in which entitlement can take shape in our lives.

The Main Takeaway

Identify entitlement behaviour in those closest to you as well as yourself. Teach and practice humility by focusing on all the gifts and blessings you have. Lead by example and treat others with love, compassion, and respect.

If you're looking for a deeper understanding of how entitlement works in the world around us, I recommend the following best books on self-development!

Best books on self-development I recommend
  1. Master Your Emotions
  2. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck
  3. The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery
  4. Get Out Of Your On Way: Overcoming Self Defeating Behaviour
  5. Stop Overthinking: 23 Techniques to Relieve Stress, Stop Negative Spirals, Declutter Your Mind and Focus on the Present ( The Path to Calm)
  6. How To Do The Work

© Kabinga Charline Mazaba. All rights reserved.

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About the Creator

Kabinga Charline Mazaba

- Blogger & Content Writer

- Founder of the clothing brand "Lifemotiva": a mission to inspire people to live their best lives.

- I help people who have experienced trauma in their lives to heal and move forward.

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