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Sexual frequency of women of all ages

Sexual frequency

By Mary HobbsPublished 2 years ago 5 min read
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Some women like to experiment with different emotional experiences and enjoy romance and passion. Some women are eager to settle down and establish lasting intimacy. But in any case, women do have a lot in common when it comes to their sexual lives. This article gives you an insight into the life course of a woman's sex life and gives you the freedom to explore your own path.

20 to 30 years old: Young does not know "love" taste

Ms. Li, a lawyer in her late 20s, is charming and beautiful, with endless charm. She went to college with her husband, Mr. Dai, and got married after graduation. Although she was not a virgin at the time, she had very limited sexual experience. "I know I should enjoy sex, but intercourse is not fun for me. I used to read books and follow the instructions, but to be honest, every time I had to fake an orgasm -- because I didn't want to disappoint my master."

Orgasm confused

Women in their 20s and 30s are the most likely to put psychological pressure on themselves to have an orgasm, according to research.

Many women fail to orgasm at this age for a simple and easily remediable reason: because they don't know enough about sex, the couple (or one of them) doesn't know enough about the function and location of the female clitoris. The clitoris is the only organ in the female body that is solely responsible for the production of sexual pleasure, while the male body does not have a similar organ.

Studies have found that women are more likely to orgasm when they masturbate because the clitoris is easily stimulated. Wang, 26, knows this well: "I grew up with a traditional education and never heard the word 'masturbation'. I didn't know what the clitoris was until I went to college. Then I read a passage in a book about the heroine who masturbated in the bathtub and brought herself into an orgasm. I thought it was wonderful... When I know how to get myself into an orgasm, I can give him more accurate cues. Such as using groans or body movements, or giving him lots of positive responses when he touches the right place."

Indeed, women in their 20s and 30s masturbate the least. Without this personal experience of orgasm, they are forced to become a fake orgasm.

Sex frequency between the ages of 20 and 30

According to the data, about 13 percent of people this age have sex every day, a third more than once a week, and more than half once a week. If you're in the "asexual" group, don't worry, 17 percent of your sisters are just like you.

30 to 40: Have a lot of sex

The sexual needs of women in their 30s and 40s are very strong. At this time, though, their romantic and career challenges reach their peak, and they often face pregnancy and breastfeeding stress. What's surprising, though, is that women of this age enjoy sex and orgasm more than women of any other age. According to the latest report, nearly 89 percent of respondents said they had orgasms on a regular basis.

All climax

Sex experts agree that women's libido peaks in their 30s and 40s, while their male partners' libido starts to wane at the same time.

Physical changes aside, for most women in their 30s and 40s, sex has moved beyond the thrill to become more satisfying. Most women by this time were in monogamous relationships with their partners (and those who weren't married were probably working toward that goal as well), and sex was an integral part of the relationship. The couple can create pleasure whenever they want. Explore each other. Having fun in an uninhibited environment is why women enjoy good sex between the ages of 30 and 40.

Indeed, many times, a trustworthy partner can help a woman achieve orgasm during intercourse and increase her ability to enjoy it.

There are still some issues such as orgasm and whether women "ejaculate" is still controversial and confusing.

Sex frequency between 30 and 40

According to the data, this is when you have the most orgasms. More than half of women in their 30s have orgasms during sex.

40 to 50: The older the better

It might surprise you to learn that women in their 40s and 50s enjoy more sex than other women. Because women of this period were already very familiar with their bodies and knew its secrets, it opened the door to sexual paradise for them. Although some studies have shown that women orgasm less frequently at this stage than in their prime, and some women may experience vaginal atrophy, many women believe they are in their sexual prime by this age.

As women get older, their self-esteem and embarrassment issues tend to go away.

"Older women are more aware of what they want and what they don't want... She touches her body and knows how to feel good."

Multiple orgasms

Because they know what they need, women of this age are more likely to have multiple orgasms in a single sex session, while men of this age usually have only one orgasm.

"My sex life after turning 40 is the best I've ever had," said Ms. Lu, 46. "I felt free and subconsciously aware of my body. It inspired me to be creative and to try something new that I had never thought of before. I've been married and divorced, raised three children on my own, and now in my 40s, I find myself free."

From a sexy and emotional point of view, the fifth decade of life is one of the most abundant. And for many women, the pleasure only increases, not decreases.

Sex frequency between the ages of 40 and 50

Fewer than a third of women in their 40s have sex at least once a week, according to data. Women this age are also often keen to use sexual AIDS such as vibrators.

Indeed, whether you are now 20, 30, or 40 years old, the flowers will certainly be more fragrant and the scenery will certainly be more beautiful in the future!

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