by Emily Wright about a year ago in self care

What is self-care and how do we do it?


There appears to be something new popping up on everyone's radar; a new-ish term that really should have had more emphasis placed on it sooner...

Self care.

This is something, which until now, I really haven't taken notice of. I have always assumed that when I took the odd, relaxing bubble bath maybe three, sometimes more a month, that I was really taking care of myself—recovering, relaxing. HA!

Turns out our bodies and minds need a little bit more than just a lush bath bomb once in a blue moon. But actually, does that really come as a surprise? We've all known for a long time that maybe we should shut off our laptops at 5:30 when we leave the office and not open them again till the next morning, or that instead of shoving a Chicago town deep pan in the microwave, we could make ourselves a tasty and nutritious meal.

Why do we forget about the most important part of our lives? Us.

I find I'm someone that doesn't deal with stress in a good way. It affects me physically as well as mentally; however, I have noticed small changes in my health since taking up self-care.

Self-care is making time for yourself away from the "noise" of life because it's exhausting! Not sure about you, but I always have something flying around my brain.

So, what has helped me?

It's not always easy knowing what to do to help yourself, so when I picked Jayne Hardy's The Self-Care Project off the shelf, I found it extremely fascinating. This book is a great way to focus on the mental side of self-care. It helps you work toward positively changing the things we can hold against ourselves such as guilt, self-awareness, avoiding decisions, and not asking for help. I am only in the first chapter, but have already found it a huge help when it comes to me being more self-aware and has helped me get better sleep at night as I know I'm working on myself and putting the effort in!

What are the other things you can be doing? Take a look at the list below to get some ideas of the things you can physically do for looking after yourself.

If you can't get on with any of the things on this list, try to do one thing per day that you love and take your time doing it. It's also a great idea to try spending an afternoon doing the things which help you relax and put your mind at rest.

The more time you are able to give to yourself, the more your ability to give to others and you may just feel healthier for it!

Credits to:

Jayne Hardy—Author—The Self-Care Project

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Emily Wright

I am a blogger, amateur photographer and love to sing. I love being able to write as a creative outlet. I'm clumsy, excitable and discovering my thrills in life, probably just like most of the people around me. 

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