14 Ways to Get Lost in your Sexual life

1. the most satisfactory position for sexual intercourse is that of the man above.

This is just the most commonly used, but not necessarily the most satisfying sexual position for both partners. Women on top (women on top) may be more likely to satisfy women. The lateral position may be good for both men and women.

2. all kinds of sexual behavior should be prohibited during pregnancy.

During the first trimester of pregnancy, a woman may not want to have sex because of early pregnancy reactions, and uterine contractions during orgasm may lead to miscarriage. It is advisable to suspend intercourse or to avoid orgasmic sex.

During the other months of pregnancy, there is no need to prohibit all kinds of sexual activity, including intercourse.

3. A small penis is not as satisfying as a large one.

The size of the penis varies considerably in the soft state, but not when erect. Because the vagina is contractile, the difference in erect penis size seems insignificant. What really makes a woman happy is direct or indirect stimulation of the clitoris. The vaginal wall is actually not very sensitive to sexual stimulation from the penis.

4. in the long run, it is best to abstemious sex drive, and let libido sublimation.

That's a Puritan, Stoic way of saying it. We have never seen abstinence transform sexual power into anything else. There are no obvious physical benefits to abstinence, but active sex life is good for both mind and body.

5. THE WOMAN WHO IS KEEN ON SEX IS FEMALE NYMphomaniac or hypersexuality.

Women are naturally more sexually capable than men. True nymphomaniacs and pathological hypersexuality are both present and extremely rare.

6. Old age is the end of sexual activity.

Men and women don't have to give up sex because of age. On the contrary, maintaining a moderate sex life can slow down mental and physical aging.

7. as a man, if can't make a woman get sexual satisfaction, is suffering from some serious sexual dysfunction.

Not necessarily. There are various circumstances and reasons why women cannot get sexual satisfaction, which should be analyzed concretely.

8. Sexual intercourse is a task for men to strive to complete.

Social stereotypes view men as machines that work hard to achieve goals and achievements, and even sexual intercourse is an intense task for women to achieve orgasm. In fact, this kind of thinking takes the excitement out of sex. Sex should be a full immersion in the body and soul, not a work task about how hard an erection will be, how long it will last, and how many orgasms it will trigger. Those who care can only cause "operational anxiety," destructive pleasure, and lead to sexual dysfunction.

9. men always want to have sex, always want to have sex right away.

Men, like women, do not always want to have sex, nor do they always want to have sex right away. Men are worse off than women when it comes to "getting ready" because they can't get an erection for a period of time after ejaculation. The length of the refractory period, which can range from a few minutes to several hours, varies from person to person, from context to context, and from age to age.

10. All physical contact must lead to sexual intercourse.

Good touch is good in its own right. It doesn't have to translate into sex. Sometimes you can't have sex, sometimes you don't want to have sex, as long as you have the sexual pleasure of physical contact is good. By clinging to the idea that you must have sex after carnal contact, you lose a lot of sexual pleasure in your life.

11. Sex is sex.

Sex is much richer than intercourse (usually referred to as "vaginal intercourse" in which the penis is inserted into the vagina). Intercourse is only one way to have sex, not the only way. In certain situations, intercourse is neither the best nor the most appropriate way.

12. A good sex life must end with an orgasm.

An orgasm is just a form of sexual pleasure and satisfaction. "Good sex" should be based on genuine satisfaction for both partners, and orgasm is not a necessary factor. If FEEL THIS is NOT EASY SEXUAL CLIMAX APPEARS, OR WANT VERY LABORIOUS ABILITY TO APPEAR RELUCTANTLY, BE INFERIOR TO WHEN FEELING STILL GOOD, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.

13. Men need sex more than women do, and men are more sexually active than women.

In fact, it is now known that women also have strong sexual desire, even more than men. Of course, everyone is different. In a couple, their sexual desires are not always perfectly matched. So each partner needs to be aware of their sexuality and that of the other in order to build a mutually satisfying sex life. It's not just men's sexual desires that should be satisfied, it's women's sexual desires that should be satisfied, not just for men.

14. In bed, the woman can not take the initiative to promote a request.

Of course, you can. Most men prefer their spouse to take the initiative in bed, rather than their wife just lying on the bank, like a log, waiting for the man to satisfy her. In fact, both sides should take the initiative to cultivate and develop your sex life together!