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You don’t need to emphasize all of things. But all of us, being idealists at heart, like to think of motives that sound good. So, in order to change people, appeal to the nobler motives.

You may be right. Nothing will work in all cases - and nothing will work with all people. If you are satisfied with the results you are now getting, why change? If you are not satisfied, why not experiment?

You don’t have to stress about everything.

But because we are all idealists at heart, we all like to come up with reasons that sound good. So, if you want to change someone's perspective or just to entertain someone, you need to appeal to their better nature.

Maybe you’re right. Nothing will work in every situation and with every person. If you’re happy with the way things are going now, why change? If you’re not happy, why not try something new?

People are honest and want to fulfill their duties and I believe that chiselers will respond positively if you treat them honestly, uprightly, and fairly.

But…

This is the day of dramatization. Just saying something is true isn’t enough. Truth needs to be made clear, interesting, and exciting. You need to put on a show. Instagram is the way to do it. Youtube also does it.

And you have to do it if you want people to pay attention to you. Therefore I’m here to tell you about my observation. I want you to know the core of the content that going to work even without every drama.

Be and stay humble

Ok, we separate things first.

• Entertainment content
• Value content

If you want to put entertainment over value then I don’t think this article is for you. Entertainment these days has gone too far, they get people's attention by triggering people and it drains so much energy to me.

If you want to make value content, the thing you have to know is this. Don’t be entitled, don’t be in denial. That’s it, and then the value on the second step.

Whatever value you’re going to include, make sure the content has a synergistic process.

The synergistic process that led to the creation of your mission to engrave the purpose in the hearts and minds of the audience and it has served you well as a frame of reference for what you are about, as well as what you are not about.

This process feels pressure from both sides and won’t be possible if the person who brings the value sees him or herself as a proud person. If you feel like your content or your persona is somehow “prideful,” most of the time, the feedback is denial and debate.

I think you should know that.

Valuing the differences

Ethics and morals.

First, we have to understand ethics and morals most of the time are the core of the principles. If someone comes up with the comment, “spit on your face!!!” then it is no longer on the differences spectrum, it’s degradation. Definitely not part of this topic.

Second, unity is not uniformity. Unity calls for accepting the differences, not trying to erase them. People can scream about tolerance but most of the time they are the ones who can’t respect others’ differences.

And valuing those differences is to realize that all people see the world, not as it is, but as they are.

The horizon of thinking requires objectivity in certain lines in a certain way sometimes but it’s because the complexity of the idea is somehow part of the perspective of people that we might despise.

It happened to me every single time. I may disagree with people’s views many times, yet as shady as it sounds, it gives me a lot to think about and produces different angles that are somehow beautiful to explore.

Gentle approach

It is an inside-out approach.

And as you do it, watch what happens to your circle of influence. Don’t get me wrong, being influenceable is the key to influencing others but to penetrate your influence with meaningless stuff gain, you nothing in the long run.

The time you invest to deeply understand the people you love brings tremendous dividends in open communication. It would open the necessity in your mind about what people want to hear and it matters a lot in terms of expanding your influence.

People tend to give more and more for something that they want, not what they need.

Seek to understand. Before problems come up, before you try to evaluate, and prescribe before you try to present your ideas. It’s a powerful habit of effective interdependence.

When we really, deeply understand each other, we open the door to creative solutions and third alternatives. Our differences are no longer stumbling blocks to communication and progress.

The problem-solving element is a must

What’s in it for me?

Our culture teaches us that if we want something in life, we have to “look out for number one.” It says, “life is a game, a race, a competition, and you better win it.”

Of course, we try to appear generous and cheer for others’ successes, but inwardly, privately, so many of us are eating our hearts out when others achieve.

Our culture cries out for, even demands, understanding, and influence. However, those things also create a fake purpose that leads you to hollow guidance.

So many people on the internet only bring the problem to the table to leave it out cold, to discuss, to debate, and not to solve anything. They called it content.

As you do, as you progress, you will find enduring solutions and direction. You will also find the contrast between a gentle timeless approach and forced-printed principles that will not last more than a week.

Listening to our language

In the great literature of all progressive societies, love is a verb. Reactive people make it a feeling. They’re driven by feelings and proactive people make love a verb.

Love is sacrifices you make, the giving of self, a self that was programmed to help by divine purpose, or simply a genuine reflection of being a human.

Whether a problem is direct, indirect, or has no control, we have in our hands the first step to the solution. Accepting people's problems with an open mind is the best way to embrace the responsibility to prioritize others over us.

Persuasion works in a short-term relationship but the idea of this article is to make long-term harmony with your brain and your audience. In the end, it’s your choice.

But please, let me know what you think…