Why do guys just disappear after chatting?

1. The feedback is not positive and the relationship is too cold. I think there are probably not too many people who enjoy the feeling of wishful thinking, so when the other party contacts you with a pursuit mentality, he will want to respond accordingly. Feedback, even a little bit will increase his motivation to move forward. I have encountered many similar situations. Girls always feel that they should not show their affection for boys too early and should be reserved. I actually agree with this, but it must be applied properly. Be reserved when you should be reserved, and make progress when you need to improve. Therefore, it is appropriate to give each other a little sweetness. When "the program does not respond", most people will choose to "end the process", because waiting is an erratic thing, let alone waiting without a response. Of course, if you are not interested in boys, you can indeed persuade them to quit with a cold attitude. If you want to spark some sparks with the other party, you should give the other party a little response, so that the other party feels that he is not wishful thinking. 2. The topic is overdrawn and the development is too fast. This situation is the opposite of the first one. The progress is too fast, which leads to the topic overdraft. In love, the good side needs to be shown slowly and little by little. The ambiguous period before the relationship is confirmed is very beautiful, and that kind of looming enthusiasm is hard to come back when we officially enter the relationship, so we should What time do you do. Even if the other party is a little shy, or is still thinking about it, it will put a lot of pressure on the other party, resulting in this situation of being unable to cope and leaving without saying goodbye. There are indeed many boys who subconsciously do not cherish the other party because it is too easy to get, so from the above two points, we can see that love cannot be too extreme, and it is necessary to control the size and time. The right way to love. 3. Disagreement of three views revealed in speech Many times chatting will reveal a person's three views, especially when discussing some hot social news, the most direct way to see whether two people have the same thoughts. If the other party shows signs of sudden disappearance or sudden indifference, you can recall whether you have had differences in three views. However, in this case, I don’t think it is necessary to regret. In love, there is no need for us to distort our views to cater to each other. The right person is the one who has the same thoughts and views on things. Fourth, there is a new object, or a boy who has established a relationship with the other party is a boy who casts a wide net, and chats with several girls at the same time. Once one is caught, the others can be cut off. When I just graduated, there was a good buddy, a blind date introduced by my family, a friend introduced by my brother, and we chatted with a few girls, and finally chose one, and the others were put on hold, so if the boys suddenly disappeared It may also be that you have already established a relationship with someone else first. How can a girl identify this situation? First, see if the other party will disappear suddenly and often during the chat with you, will it never give you a long time, always some very fragmented time, Would it be a little perfunctory to chat with you, etc. After analyzing so many reasons, what I want to say most is that no matter what the reason is for the boy to suddenly disappear, it is very rude, so if the boy disappears without saying anything, he will never appear again, girls Don't be sorry either. Bury him decently in your heart, find a boy who will always be a gentleman and who will always know how to care about your feelings!