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Why are we afraid to love?

by Osana Wasut 3 years ago in love
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One of my deepest desires in life is also one of my deepest fears...

We tend to put up walls when we are around other humans, and the more humans around us the more walls go up. Its interesting to me because one of my deepest desires in life is also one of my deepest fears, and that is connection with others.

Why is that? Why are we so afraid of one another? Why are we so fearful to say we love someone? Why are we afraid to love?

What happened is in the past, but it is why we are this way. Something that happened to you when you were just a child, is now creating your present day experience. That is until you start to recognize it for what it is, which is just a story you created that is now controlling your entire life.

Most of the time it's something along the lines of, "I'm not good enough, I'm not wanted, or I'm not lovable."

We don't think we are enough for another person, we don't think we are wanted, or lovable, and because of this, we limit our own potential as a human significantly, because if we started to wake up each and every day and say, "I am enough, I am wanted, I am lovable" we would start to see a new Earth happen very quickly.

The challenge with all of this, is not in the act of any of this, it is in the belief, For you wouldn't cast a spell that you don't believe is going to work, so there is no point in saying affirmations if you don't truly believe that you are enough, or you are lovable, or that you are wanted.

You need to go straight to WHY you don't believe these things, your why is going to be important in life, why do you think you are the way you are? Why aren't you enough? Why aren't you lovable? Why will be your new best friend, and its a powerful question to ask.

Instead of painting stories of the past, and trying to make it all make sense, just be complete with the past, and let it go.

It actually can be that easy, it doesn't need to take years to let go of some deep deep shit, but we would simply ask you, why are you holding onto it? Why are you holding onto shit that isn't serving your highest good?

You know you are enough, you already know this, you don't need an affirmation, you simply need to believe you are and its already done, you are enough. You are loved, you already know this too, you don't need an affirmation to tell you that you are loved, you already know this, its time for humanity to believe it too, we know its our birthright to be loved, we are born love, and that is what we are coming home to, we are coming home to love.

Love has been an interesting thought for me for a while now, because its in pretty much every song, every story, every fairy tale, every child, every animal. Love is all around us, yet we cannot see Love, we cannot point to love and say "There it is! There's love!"

No you cant, and really, you cant even define or describe love, as there are not enough words to do it justice.

Love is many things, if not all things, I do believe we are one, we are all connected and that connection is love, Love truly is all there ever was and all there ever will be and Love has no limits.

Love brought you to this moment right here, and Love will never die, it is eternal, and you are that, you are love.

Go be Love, and Love will find you...

Because remember the secret, you attract into your life what you are, so if you want love, be love, and it has no other option but to come into your life!

Thank you for reading this, and until next time, keep on shining your beautiful light!

With Love and Light,

Lindsay @ World Dreamerz


About the author

Osana Wasut

Sharing my stories with the world. Writing has been a great tool for transformation, and I feel like I am only starting to dive deep into the self. Life is a wonderful gift, live to the fullest!

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