Why Are Men Cheating?

No woman has not once asked herself the question: why is she cheating on men? And unfortunately, there are many women whose life experience contains such an unpleasant episode.

And yet? Where does this unstoppable desire come from?

When in a man's mind the idea springs up that he could cheat on his partner with another woman, what motivates him is mainly his sexual attraction and curiosity. In addition, we all know that man is endowed with the instinct to perpetuate the species.

However, this is not an excuse, because, in addition to this instinct, the man also has a conscience and self-control that should work!

Everywhere in movies, on shows, in the media, and in everyday life, the topic of cheating on one's partner is debated. The lives of people who have received or have been deceived are sought, looking for answers, but the conclusions are unsatisfactory at least for one of the interlocutors. And while most movies have a happy ending, real life is not so rosy.

The public stories I mentioned above bombard men with all sorts of images far from reality: beautiful women driving you crazy, tricks for the guaranteed conquest of a voluptuous woman: expensive car, company clothes, safety, and self-confidence.

All this information, added to the lack of sex education and taboos, generates multiple problems in the couple and leads to an inevitable separation.

Top reasons why men cheat

As simple and despicable as the main reasons men may be may seem, they are just as complex because they hide sexual, social, and psychological causes. In a top 5, here are the main reasons:

1. Simply! Most often due to dissatisfaction in the couple's sexual life, where both partners are to blame. It is also the fault of the lack of communication, both before and after the woman finds out that she was cheated. Lack of communication leads to making wrong decisions or breaking up the couple.

Don't take what I say or what your girlfriend says. It's your life, you know how much you love him and what you want to do. Communicate with him, try to see what else can be done! Maybe it was a mistake, I don't know, but talk to him and try to have something between the two of you, so that no one from outside intervenes. You have to decide and no one else!

2. Pride and pride! Men need the certainty that they are still attractive and that they can meet the demands of a woman who is attractive and wanted by the male audience.

3. The right opportunity at the right time! If the man feels frustrated in the couple's life or the relations with the partner are tense, a woman eager for adventure is an opportunity that cannot be denied! In such situations, the man is not only driven by sexual but also psychological causes.

 4. Revenge! The man once cheated, even if he sometimes forgives, will always be left with wounded pride and pride and for a long time he will suffer! Even if he stays with the one who cheated on him, he will not refuse a tempting opportunity and he will cheat as well. Why? Because revenge is sweet for many of us!

5. Sexual addiction! It is often considered a disease, manifested by the constant desire to have sex, to experience and satisfy their sexual desires but also those of as many women as possible!

What about the mistresses?

Mistress … a word shrouded in mystery and rumor. Many girls are accustomed to looking down on a woman they know they have a relationship with as a married man, while others admire women who have the power to remain in a relationship for the sake of sexual, sentimental, or sexual benefits. financial, even if most of the time, such relationships do not materialize.

In antiquity or the Middle Ages, the mistress was a mysterious beauty, a magnetic personality, who could not go unnoticed and who was attracted by her charm any man, married or not, because