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Don't show off either

By Seamons MahallPublished 2 years ago 6 min read
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To be a human being, the most basic truth is to keep a low profile, collect your temperament, lower your posture, calm your character, ease your emotions, to recognize your position.

It is important to know that a low profile is not a price drop, but a kind of protection for the self.

People live a life, you may have seen a lot of things, meet a lot of people, but also overcome too many setbacks, but the more so, the more you should know what is called the sky outside, outside people.

In this big world of people, you do not have the absolute right to speak, your skills are great, but also more than others have experienced some mundane things, more money, but this is not at all the reason for you to show off.

Low profile

In life, you will often see those who show off the rich, show off the car, and show off the table.

Perhaps it is human nature at work, they want a sense of superiority, to meet their vanity so that they become more and more in the eyes of no one.

Such people are the most vulgar in the eyes of outsiders because truly capable and experienced people tend to be low-key people, their temperament is not easy to show but let people dare not be neglected, this is the real will do people.

It is said that the sea can accommodate a hundred rivers, there is a large capacity.

The reason why the sea can accommodate a hundred rivers is that its position is very low.

People are not the same, the ability is their own, but if you just rely on this ability to domineer, with no one in sight then the consequences are unimaginable.

Must know that there are always lows and peaks, the only way not to be arrogant, not overly ambitious, is to let you climb out of the valley, not lose your footing in the high places.

So remember, a person is capable of great but also does not show these things.

01, show their wealth

Do people, and then have the ability, but also to understand the "wealth is not exposed".

Wealth is the pursuit of everyone in today's society, although it is too vulgar to say, the truth is that no money is difficult to walk, so since you know that money is important when you have money, never show off everywhere.

You can buy a car and a house and make it your own thing, but you can't be high profile and want everyone to know you're rich.

Because, in a sense, money is not a good thing after all, as the saying goes, people die of money and birds die of food, your show-off move, but unknowingly brought disaster to themselves.

Some people will be disgusted by your show-off move, actively away from you, even those who deliberately approach you, are they sincere to you?

In the end, it is because you have money to make friends with you that the heart has calculated how to circle money in you.

Even some red-eyed people will also move the crooked mind, the human heart is unpredictable, and the closest people will turn against each other.

Therefore, the rich, do not show off and do not wait for the day of the loss of wealth, only to regret the initial fanfare.

02, show off their contacts and relationships

Many people in society act in the role of peacemakers, because such people have a wide range of contacts, interpersonal relationships are handled properly, and left and right, so that people like.

I believe that in the eyes of most people, people with a lot of contacts, are a little bit of ability.

However, they can deal with their circle of people, must pay attention to one thing, do not go around to show who you know who, do not go around to say you and who's relationship and how good.

As the saying goes: connections are resources, and resources are wealth.

You show off, it will make people read your status, do not as your smooth do.

Out into society, and then honest people will meet a few injustices, then you show around the inadvertent act becomes a means for them to combat you.

Moreover, many people are not as well-connected as you are, and maybe your very good relationship with someone is another enemy.

There are too many coincidences and calamities in life, as the saying goes, trouble comes from the mouth, in order not to get into unnecessary trouble, we must know how to be low-key and hide our skills in the heart.

03, show their love life

Now there is a word called "show love", many couples like to do this kind of thing, deliberately in front of others to show love, want others to envy.

Love can show, but must master a good degree, never too much.

And, the object of your love show, must be in front of their close people, if outside the move in front of strangers or unfamiliar people show love, I'm afraid it will be annoying.

The relationship is a matter of two people, no matter how happy you two are together, need to know that this happiness belongs only to the two of you.

A woman may let a man take care of himself in front of outsiders to feel safe, but this is not a reason to show love excessively.

It is important to know how to operate your love, it is not the words and eyes of others, but what you know and feel.

Maybe because you two frequently show off happiness, to the time when your feelings appear crisis, small-minded people tend to persuade divided not to persuade peace, when the words of others linger in your mind, will find bad consequences.

Therefore, how happy couples do not over-show love, to treasure this feeling, in order not to be disturbed by the outside world.

Time emotional classroom.

Low-key do, is a life attitude, but also life wisdom.

Anyone who has substance and ability will not easily flaunt themselves and make unnecessary flaunting.

Low-key being not only shows personal quality but also can well protect themselves.

Talk less and do more, and put your boast into action to get the respect and praise of others.

Once you put yourself in the spotlight, you will attract annoying moths and mosquitoes, but also easily will reveal their secrets and weaknesses, people with ulterior motives, a blow can hit you in the seven inches.

Therefore, it is better to put your skills first and stay away from showing off and showing off.

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