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The Secret Signs of Love

How Do You Know if He Is Attracted to You?

By Nojus HarringtonPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
The Secret Signs of Love
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Just as women are accustomed to biting their lips, arranging their hair, or bringing their legs closer when attracted to the man she is talking to, so it is with men!

Even if they don't always say the things that annoy them or if they like you, you may realize these things yourself if you pay little attention to the signs they show.

There are certain signs in the relationship between a man and a woman (often unconscious, instinctive) by which the man discloses his sentimental-erotic disposition at that moment. Unfortunately, we are not always able to decipher these clues.

How can a woman realize if a man is willing to have an emotional dialogue with her - and to what extent? Here are some tips that we hope will help you:

1. Examine her body language. If he likes you, he will often face you and look at you constantly. If he bends his shoulders in your direction, it means he wants to listen to you. If his pelvis is facing you, then he certainly feels that there is a connection between you.

2. Pay attention to his gaze. If he is interested in you, you have two possibilities: either he will look at you fleetingly (if he is ashamed), or he will stare at you, until the moment when your eyes meet. If, for example, he makes a joke, his first instinct will be to look at you to see if you laugh.

If you like it, its pupils will dilate (if you have closer eye contact).

3. Analyze if it touches you. He may hold your hand when you laugh together or not move his leg if he accidentally touched yours. It can also hug you when you do or say little things. See if he behaves the same way with the other women around him.

4. Listen to what he tells you. If he has emotions because he is talking to you, he will start talking about himself, to show you that he is the one you are looking for.

5. Observe his behavior around other women. Some men flirt with others to get your attention. This helps them analyze your reactions and see if you like them too.

When you leave the place in question, you can ask a friend to observe her behavior further. If he stops flirting, it means he's doing everything to be noticed by you.

6. Be careful if he is interested in the same things you are. For example, if you listen to the same type of music, it will recommend some songs or artists to listen to. Another example is sports: if he likes you, he will ask you to play against him and he will compliment you or tease you.

7. Look for signs of agitation. Sweaty palms, trembling voice, hesitation - these are all signs that he is attracted to you and wants to make an impression on you, but he doesn't know how to react.

8. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he likes you, they will tease him in your presence or come and talk to you to find out if you are interested in him. Study their reactions in your presence - are they smiling? Then you know the answer

9. See if you notice "masculine things." For example, when you left home, your father or brother hugged you and left you with an almost imperceptible smell of aftershave. If he asks you, "Does that smell like aftershave?" it means she has the impression that she is from another man and it is clear that she likes you.

10. "Spend time" with you on Messenger and social networks. If he talks to you often on the internet, it means he likes you. It can also view your profile on social networks and leave comments or suggestions for songs or movies.

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