friendship
C.S Lewis got it right: friendship is born when one person says to another: "What! You too? I thought I was the only one!"
Yes, YOU. Top Story - November 2024.
Dear Vocal community, I missed an appointment today. ECG. They rang me, and they sounded properly pissed off. I don’t blame them, what a waste, with waiting lists as they are. It’s not like me, though, to miss an appointment. Not the kind of thing I do. It’s just, it’s all felt a bit much lately. The other day, I tried to unlock the front door with the car key – not the key itself, the fob, the little button to unlock the car doors. Pointed it at the house and pressed away with mounting frustration. Didn’t even try the door mind you. Perhaps it worked. I wouldn’t know, I didn’t complete the necessary steps to facilitate ingress. I feel a bit like my brain exploded and the pieces are all in there, but rolling around like spilt marbles. I suppose I should be grateful I haven’t lost any, really.
By Hannah Moore2 years ago in Humans
Dear Dr.Stem
Dear Dr.Stem, I planned on doing this anyways, but it seems once again, my desire of writing something specific has fallen into place with another Vocal challenge. I swear it sometimes reads my mind. It couldn't be more fitting to write this to you through a challenge, because a past Vocal challenge is where it all started… *** Ten months ago, Vocal started the #200 Challenge. It was us writing our goals and aspirations on Vocal for the year 2024 that was right around the corner. For me, that challenge incorporated a mini bio of sorts. Because to understand my goals for my dream of writing, it was important for me to help people understand the programming of an unhealthy, and toxic childhood upbringing I had to overcome, and the disease of addiction I've had to battle that started with pain pills from my doctor. And most painful of all, the journey of having to start loving and forgiving myself after losing custody of my daughters. That was the key to begin healing all the wounds I carried, and what gave me the confidence to finally publish my first piece on Vocal. That first story was actually published almost exactly a year ago. And thanks to you, I have accomplished way more than I could have dreamed to in such a small period of time. Three months after I published my entry titled ‘Simply Me’ you posted a comment on it. You asked me if I wanted to co-author your book coming out, and if I'd like to participate as a guest on your youtube podcast. Now I'm not gonna lie, I was hesitant to respond. I thought there was no way you were real, because seeing someone ask me that seemed way too be good to be true. I mean after all, I hadn't even been publishing my work online a year. And there was no way in my mind I would be recognized that fast. I thought it would be years of writing, and on multiple platforms, before I had an opportunity this incredible. So I figured your comment was some sort of fraud or spam. And even if you were real, these days there always seems to be a catch, and nothing is free. Because of that, I almost didn't take the time to respond. Then I thought back to opportunities I have let slip past me before because of fear or lack of belief in myself. It made me realize it was worth it to at least email you and see what you had to say. Because I knew if I didn't at least inquire, I'd regret the not knowing later. I didn't need to carry any more of those around. And you were real. You were asking me to join your podcast, be a part of your book, and weren't asking for a thing from me aside from my time and desire to do the very thing I have a passion for. Write, while sharing my life experience, to try and help others who struggle like me to heal along the way. You showed me I have a chance to be successful despite starting later in life and having made so many mistakes. You reminded me that I don't have to be perfect to be able to help others. That my past mistakes don't define who I choose to be today, and that I can instead use them as a tool to create a career I have always dreamed of. You gave me that little piece of confidence I've been needed to really believe enough in myself to really dive into writing my book. Now I don't write it with fear or insecurity, but with hope and excitement because I finally am trusting that this is the path I belong on, and that I can make it happen as long as I don't give up. And someday, I can give others the same gift you gave to me. Not only that, but you gave me a kickstart when I finally get my book published. I can now represent myself as a co-author of a best selling book. Without you I wouldn't have that amazing opportunity, and now I have something people can see and say “Hey, she's been in a best selling book, so her book might be something worth reading.” When I tell people of what you've done for me, I start crying every time… I mean great, I'm starting to even cry now. But that's how grateful I am to you, and will always be. So with all of that, I just want to again say thank you. With much love and respect, Tressa. .
By Tressa Rose2 years ago in Humans
10 Unforgettable Signs You've Left a Lasting Impression on Him
We've all been there—that bittersweet moment when a relationship closes and you're cleared out pondering on the off chance that you made any enduring effect. Did you take off impressions on his heart, or were you fair a short-lived chapter in his life story? The truth is, when we connect with somebody, we regularly take off an impression that waits long after the final goodbye. But how can you tell on the off chance that you're still possessing space in his contemplations? Let's jump into the obvious signs that propose you're extraordinary to him.
By Milan Milic2 years ago in Humans
What are Values?
What are Values? Values are tied in with observing guidelines, yet rather they are the valid and strong direction for carrying on with existence with respectability. They lead a person on the correct way, driving them towards the improvement of a respectable person. Values address mankind, love, compassion, and regard. These are the inconspicuous powers that rouse us to act with thoughtfulness, help other people, and make a positive effect on society. They are the underpinning of moral living, empowering people to be better individuals and adding to a superior world. A Delightful Model: The Impact of a Mother's Qualities In a little, devastated town, there carried on with an unfortunate family. Among them was a little kid named Sima, who came from an unassuming foundation. Her folks battled to earn barely enough to get by, however regardless of their difficulties, Sima's mom generally showed her one significant example: "My girl, never go amiss from the way of truth. Regardless of whether nobody is watching, never undermine your inward qualities." Sima's mom's words generally reverberated to her. She continually stressed the significance of consideration, regard for other people, and showing compassion towards those out of luck. In spite of their neediness, Sima's mom not even once requested help from others. Her life was a living illustration of uprightness and values. As time elapsed, Sima became older and finished her schooling. Ultimately, she got some work in a huge city. In any case, her life was destined to be tried when she found that a partner at her working environment was engaged with defilement, attempting to take advantage of the organization for individual increase. Many individuals around her upheld this way of behaving, considering it to be a chance to progress. However, Sima couldn't disregard the qualities her mom had imparted in her. Her mom's words continued to ring in her ears: "Never think twice about reality." Sima stopped, thought profoundly, and chose to stand firm. She detailed the bad works on, declining to let them slip by everyone's notice. Her boldness in supporting what was correct not just prompted an improved result for the organization yet additionally brought her acknowledgment and regard. She procured advancements, and her profession thrived. In any case, the best accomplishment of everything was the manner in which she had remained consistent with her mom's upsides of truth and trustworthiness. Values as the Pathway of Life Sima's model instructs us that values are fundamental in each part of life. Values are not just a bunch of rules to keep; they have the ability to shape our character. They are critical to how we cooperate with the world and assist us with having a significant, effective existence. The direction that values give isn't simply restricted to self-awareness; it stretches out to the more extensive society also, encouraging us to be good examples for other people. The individuals who carry on with their lives in light of genuineness, love, lowliness, and empathy are the genuine legends. Values purge the psyche and activities, shaping people into refined and praiseworthy individuals. Values are the compass by which we explore through life, guaranteeing we stay on the correct way, regardless of how troublesome the excursion might be. End Values are not just about simply deciding or making progress throughout everyday life; they are tied in with characterizing what our identity is and where we take. They are an unadulterated way, on which each step is devoted to honorableness, moral living, and maintaining human respect. The influence of values can change our lives, improving them with immaculateness, flourishing, and beauty. In each test and deterrent we face, values go about as our actual aides. They give us the solidarity to pursue the ideal decisions, to live with honesty, and to add to the prosperity of society. Values shape our personality, impact our activities, and assist us with tracking down evident satisfaction throughout everyday life. They are the establishment on which we fabricate our lives, making an enduring tradition of goodness and reason. In outline, values are the concealed powers that oversee our lives, forming our choices and activities. They are not simply dynamic standards, but rather substantial rules that decide how we live, how we treat others, and how we add to our general surroundings. Genuine progress lies in living by these qualities, as they lead to a day to day existence loaded up with honor, regard, and significant associations.
By Dipak Pawar2 years ago in Humans
Building Trust and Communication in Committed Relationships
Trust and communication are the cornerstones of any successful committed relationship. They create a safe environment where partners can express themselves, share their thoughts and feelings, and grow together. In this article, we will explore the importance of trust and communication, identify common barriers to effective communication, and provide actionable strategies to enhance both in your relationship.
By Abdul Jamil Nasir2 years ago in Humans
How to Maintain Passion in Long-Term Relationships
Long-term relationships can be incredibly fulfilling, yet they often face the challenge of maintaining passion over time. As the initial spark of romance fades into the routine of everyday life, couples may find themselves wondering how to reignite that fiery connection. This article will explore effective strategies for keeping passion alive in long-term relationships, helping you create a deeper emotional bond and a more satisfying partnership.
By Abdul Jamil Nasir2 years ago in Humans
Signs of a Healthy Committed Relationship: Key Indicators
In the journey of love, recognizing the signs of a healthy committed relationship is essential for building a strong and lasting partnership. Healthy relationships are characterized by mutual respect, trust, and open communication. Understanding these key indicators can help you assess your relationship and ensure it’s on a positive path. This article will explore the essential signs of a healthy committed relationship and provide insights on how to foster these qualities.
By Abdul Jamil Nasir2 years ago in Humans
Keeping the Flame Alive: Revitalizing the Spark in Long-Term Relationships
Introduction: The Journey from Spark to Stability Relationships are often characterized by an exciting spark in the early days—a mix of curiosity, discovery, and attraction. Over time, however, the initial magic can start to fade, giving way to routine and familiarity. This change can be unsettling, even leading some to question the strength of their connection. But the reality is that the transition from the thrill of newness to the depth of companionship is a natural evolution. The good news is that with a little intention and effort, couples can reignite that spark and nurture a connection that is even more fulfilling.
By mureed hussain2 years ago in Humans
