Love is strange, it can be compared to so many things in life. On the top of my head, the best of example I can think of is - love is like flipping a coin, you know that moment where you’re not supposed to hope for a certain outcome while the coin is in the air because that defeats the purpose of a coin flip? Well, you do, and in love, of course, you hope that it will be ever-lasting and beautiful, however, it’s 50/50 either the love (or the coin) will turn into an outcome that you’ve hoped for or it will be the exact opposite there cannot be a third alternative. You think love should be simple right? If the person already fell in love with you then why is it allowed for that person to fall out of love with you for the same reason they fell in love? How does that make any fucking sense? The definition of love is “an intense feeling of deep affection.” But what does that mean? So let us define affection and break it down “a gentle feeling of fondness or liking.” so basically it is an intense feeling towards a certain person, well how much stranger can it get, yet we trust and rely on such things, things we cannot study nor see or even hear, it is strange indeed. We do not know exactly how love can be broken down, it is simply a feeling, like how you feel hungry, yet we get heartaches and our heart beats faster when we are surrounded by love just what a feeling can do to our physical state. In theory, love is supposed to be the best feeling in the world, like a spring day where you’re somehow surrounded by flowers, daisies. It's silly because daisy’s aren’t even the best flowers yet it is the most common theme people think of when they think of love, not even roses which are an actual symbol of love in our society. Even so, love is almost always categorized with heartbreak, the most excruciating feeling in the world, why? Why do we put love (good) and heartbreak (bad) into the same category? I believe it is because people do not know what love is, aforementioned love is a feeling of deep affection towards someone, well you can love your parents and your friends, therefore you cannot ever truly be sure that the love you share with a certain someone is the true maximum “love” you can feel. We will never be 100% sure, love is forever and ever going to be a void humans will try to fill until well, the void will never be filled because love is supposed to be beautiful and spontaneous and magical, so by finding the true science behind love and filling that void is instead, a murder of something that once was unexplainable and beautiful. What do you do when you feel love, or something that can be defined as love yet there is so much uncertainty and the factors in it and the possibilities and etc. What are you supposed to do, how are you supposed to exceed the expectation of what love is supposed to be, or even more, what are you supposed to do if you truly do not know what love is for you? Are you inevitably going to walk on this earth alone forever, is love a necessity for happiness? Even so in the end, what would life be if we stopped searching for one thing we are most uncertain about, without love, constantly chasing after a feeling. And without something so trivial we would be lost, we are ready to experience heartaches and tears if we could just be in that moment with someone, if we could just live in that singular moment it is almost as if all the pain in the world is worth it because it pushes us to change to evolve and expand because a breakup makes you wanna become better for that person but what you don't realise that you become better for the next person, and the cycle repeats inevitably.