When it comes to matters of the heart, going all in hurts. Because, if things don’t work out, you stand to lose everything.
Are you falling head over heels for a special man ? Is your heart filled with love and affection for him, but you’re not sure exactly how to say it?
Before demoting myself, I was a shift leader at a local branch of a widely known coffee company. During my training, my boss and I had multiple conversations about my new responsibilities which included my communication with coworkers and customers alike.
When we feel overloaded we often don't notice the things the others are giving, especially within romantic relationships more so than are platonic ones. One of the things is - stop doing what is not absolutely necessary, give yourself what you need and stop worrying about others not giving what you think they should. I have often noticed that when people are overburdened and part of it is mindset, not the reality, people tend not to see the many kindnesses people that have to offer. Romantic relationships, it may be that longing for a deep romantic kiss (not just a peck because anyone can do that and you don't need a romantic relationship for that!), longing hugs, cuddling on the couch or bed, spooning each other to sleep, holding hands in public, an act of kindness, an act of service, a loving note, a simple token of giving, the giving of precious time, or just an active listening ear.
By the time I was twenty-five I had four children. They came from three different fathers. Two of whom, I had married. And one had never seen his child. How did this happen in my life? What storm brought this in from afar? For the past two days, after another forty years of just living the life, I have been digging into introspection, trying to put my thoughts down and to figure this out for myself.
In this world we’re offered so many choices, so many avenues to go down. Unfortunately, many of us get so wrapped up in the moment that we forget to ask ourselves if we should travel down that path, myself included. We see the shiny lights, the Hollywood ending, and fail to realize it’s a movie, a story, a social fed outlet to enrapture us into submission. Don’t ask questions, don’t rock the boat, and we get to a point so far from our destination with only pieces of ourselves left because we’ve either traded it away for things we thought would make us happy, or gave it away like candy on Halloween to earn favor, counting on random people to be our barometers of happiness instead of standing our ground, and knowing our worth.
I'm going to start with a quote. My old manager once said this, and it stuck with me, because it is so true -
“If your coffee order is more than four words, then you’re part of the problem.”
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I've had one relationship and it was far from successful, shit was awful; it was loveless and super boring. I think we spent more time cheating on each other than actually being together.
Water brook are the developers of retirement complexes that are aimed at providing the best in class. Water brook has developed many luxury retirement villages. Starting in the year 2001 the Yowie Bay retirement village was developed. Then the Greenwich retirement village was developed in the year 2008. Following the development of these retirement complexes, Water brook developed a retirement village at Bowral. Another retirement village is under development at the Bay view Golf course. The Bay view golf course provides to the residents or rather supposed to provide the view of the ocean while the senior retirees would be playing golf. There are host of amenities at the retirement villages at the Bowral and other being planned in different stages. There is a twenty four hour nurse under whose supervision and that of the doctors who specialise in the old age problems, the entire course of the activities are designed. There are cafeterias of many types which serve a variety of meals with the type of the meals changing from time to time. The senior residents are encouraged to discuss with the chef as to the kind of meals they want to have. There are people at the twenty four hour concierge service who are available to assist at anytime. These people have been hired by the Water brook management, who have empathy for the seniors. Those people who are just interested to work at the Water brook have not been hired. Empathy and sensitivity towards the senior retirees is crucial for the job. There cannot be a job that makes the seniors uncomfortable with the staff. Hence the management of Water brook chose only those ones who displayed the kind of attitude towards the seniors which made the seniors comfortable be they the staff at the concierge or the ones who do the cleaning.
We ate, we talked, we snuck desserts, and we walked up hills to look at New York City from across the Hudson. We talked about the things that just seem too big and too meaningful to discuss on a normal day or via calls or text messages. We were in the moment, together, taking it in for all it was worth.
Celebrating life events like Birthdays can be a private affair or the celebrations can include your friends and family. And just because you and your partner are growing old, it does not mean that you should not celebrate it. Celebrate the special day of your soul mate with zeal and the best birthday gift ideas for wife. Here are we to run down the art of surprising your wife on her birthday in simple steps.