As a Coach I have had many enquires about Relationship Coaching due to many couples having problems with their partner, especially during this time.
One day while I was out running errands I passed by a couple who was having a disagreement in the aisle I was in. I overheard what was said but when I made it back home I sat back and asked, “Do I treat and react like that in my relationships”? I know no one is prefect and sometimes we let our anger overpower our actions without thinking about who’s around, who hears you, and what we let come out of our mouths. My overthinking bought me to write down ways people could improve and easily deescalate a situation without leaving each person feeling sad, upset, hurt, unheard, and misunderstood.
Many men struggle with connecting to a woman with the communication side of things. A lot of men have no trouble scoring themselves a girl purely because they are easy on the eye. But what about the men out there who lack confidence and need something else to woo a woman. You may notice you struggle to make her laugh, you don't know which sexual conversation to engage in or what to say and overall you might not know how to keep her interested. Here i will be telling you the truth about the female mind and what we REALLY want.
So – you’re a new mum. And you’re exhausted. What to do to keep a relationship alive might not be high up on your to-do list – if it’s on there at all.
Kindness could fine well save the world
One of the biggest questions single parents have when it comes to dating is, when do I introduce the kids to my new partner? It’s not an easy question to answer, and everyone will have a different opinion.
Has any one ever asked you what you wanted? Have you been asked to set aside your partner, your kids, your job, your family and everyone else to honestly zero in on just you? To focus on what it is that you want and makes you happy? Have you looked at your present situation in your life and really soaked it all in to see if you are truly happy? To decide if you want to improve something in your life, or about you? To sift through everything and see what makes you happy and doesn’t make you happy? What can be changed or improved? If anything should be changed.
You’re tired of dating people to find out later that they were never in a place emotionally to give you what you needed, to give you back what you give to others, to be there for you like you have been for them. The thing is that the blame isn’t all theirs and that is what you will eventually come to understand. But the real question is even if they were, would the person you are now at the level of healing and with your current relationship with your emotions be ready for that? Because the things that we attract, want, and value in others should show us a lot about ourselves allowing us to look inward asking ourselves why those are things that matter and gravitate towards us. What and why they resonate with us in some aspect.
Cabin Fever. Under normal circumstances, we live very fast paced lives, are constantly rushing and, if anything, don’t get to see our loved ones as much as we would like to.
Two years after the break up, that devastating break up with a guy that I thought I loved him with everything I had to offer, I changed a lot over the course of two years.
You’ve been read the fairy tale stories about love and how Prince Charming will one day whisk you away. The blissful and endless love of admiration. No tales of fights, arguments or anything ugly. The beauty of it all capitivates you and makes you long for that.