Surviving, you are not alone

There is no shortage of lonely people in life, but not many like to get together, not do want to, but are afraid of disappointment, afraid to barely get over, get not what they want, and may even be more lonely.

After a long time, they would rather be alone.

But loneliness still exists, and it is not something that can be ignored if you want to.

Then how can you not be lonely?

I think time will give you the answer.

When you are no longer obsessed with getting rid of loneliness, learn to enjoy it, and be yourself to your heart's content, you will slowly discover the joy of life.

1. When you are lonely, endure!

Some people think that if you are busy, you are not lonely.

Therefore, most of them will try their best to arrange their lives to the fullest, and sometimes when they can get off work early on holidays, they would rather stay in the company and work overtime for a while, so that they don't have to return home so early to face loneliness.

However, avoiding loneliness will only make life seem more lonely.

Whenever it's late at night, it's easier to fall into the sadness of being alone, feeling lonely and unable to find a companion to be with, and after a long time, he will have the illusion that he can find a friend to accompany him or fall in love to not be lonely, but he doesn't think that he can barely get by without treating the symptoms, and loneliness still exists.

As a result, before you find a solution, you will be tired of yourself.

Instead of resisting loneliness, you should enjoy it, learn to use the time of loneliness to better enrich yourself, do what you want to do, live your true self, and naturally find out the fun of being alone over time.

As Lawrence said, "To be able to be alone is one of the great joys of life, to be able to think about what is on your mind, to be able to do your little work, to be able to see further into the world, to be able to experience yourself undisturbed in your deep-rooted connection with the center of all things."

When you no longer resist loneliness, like the interplay of forces, and you don't resist it anymore, it naturally can't hurt you.

You can learn how to live better by enduring those moments when you are alone and finding the joy of "loneliness".

2. Let go of "loneliness" and enjoy life

Is loneliness scary? No, it is not scary.

It is only because you are afraid of it that you feel terrible, magnifying the harm of loneliness countless times and feeling that you can't bear the pain.

Therefore, you think you can get rid of loneliness by having a lot of friends, attending more friends' parties, and having a sweet relationship, but in fact, the hilarity brings about a momentary revelry, and what remains afterward is endless emptiness, and loneliness still exists.

The more you long for fun, the more likely you are to be afraid of loneliness.

If you are too obsessed with getting rid of loneliness, it is easy for it to come down like a dog's skin. Instead of that, you should learn to let go of "loneliness", enjoy life, be brave and live a better life.

You may still feel lonely at first, but after you get over it, everything will slowly change for the better, you will become a better you, you will meet people who love you, and you will gain true feelings.

Everything will move in the direction of "good" after loneliness.

If you can survive loneliness, you can achieve a better you.

3.

Life is inevitably lonely.

Some people accept it, some resist it ...... but in the end, those who accept it live better than those who resist it.

As the old saying goes, "If you don't go through a bone-chilling experience, how can you get the fragrance of plum blossoms?" Instead of being afraid of loneliness, you should take it as an exercise and take advantage of this time to train yourself and make yourself better.

Imagine, when others are afraid of loneliness and looking for happy companions, you are studying silently behind the scenes and working hard for what you want to do, so you somehow have a feeling of being one step ahead of others.

The harder you work, the luckier you can be. If you have time to be afraid of being alone, you might as well spend more time trying.

Don't be afraid of being alone, just get through it!