Some marriage truths, the sooner you know the better

Many people say that survival is a human instinct.

But in my opinion, besides survival, the pursuit of emotion seems to be an instinct of human beings.

As Wang Zenger said:

Love is a non-professional thing, not a skill or ability, but the growth of flowers and trees, love and persistence for time and seasons.

There is no need to deliberately show anything, nor do you have to deliberately pursue anything. You just follow your heart to be close and warm. This is love.

This instinct of love can be traced back to as early as the ignorant teenage years and lasts until death at the latest.

For human beings, it seems that the long run towards love has started from the beginning of knowing love. And this long run never seems to end.

However, human beings have limited perception. They do not know beforehand that the long run of love has no end.

Before they have experienced a love for themselves, before they have gone through this life, they always mistakenly think that the end of chasing love is marriage.

But what is the truth? Married people never stop yearning for and chasing love.

So you can see that those couples in this world, either love each other for life or choose to open up a world in their hearts and pursue love again after it is gone.

It is clear that the pursuit of love is an instinct, even marriage can not control this instinct in human nature.

So, the sooner you know the truth about some marriages, the better.

First of all, marriage is never the end of love.

Never imagine that after you walk into a marriage with a person, you can enjoy that person's love forever.

The pursuit of love is always a dynamic process. If there is no way for love to live on in a marriage, then the marriage will eventually die in name only.

The point of marriage was never to captivate love, but to perpetuate it, to be as strong as ever in humdrum life.

You will find that those who try to get married once and for all, do not get what they want in a marriage.

There are some truths about marriage that many people won't bring up in the past. It is also because of this reason that a group of people is getting married.

Marriage has never been a stronghold of love. Those who try to get love from marriage, and those who try to discuss love in terms of marriage, are not smart people.

Second, the establishment of a marriage relationship does not mean an agreement to live together forever.

Marriage is simply a state of being more intimate than a romantic relationship.

It is established so that the two people who love each other henceforth become a new family, affirmed by the world, recognized by society, and protected by law.

In addition, he does not represent any vows or covenants.

The vows on top of the wedding ceremony, although booming and amazing, are, in the end, just a sense of ceremony.

When you know that in the truth of marriage, the marriage never means eternity.

The future of "holding the hand of a son and growing old with him" is bright, but not all marriages based on rice and oil can reach a good moment.

Finally, marriage is a reality, not a romance.

Too many people in the world treat marriage as a kind of romance in love, a sense of ceremony in love.

However, after the ceremony is over, the guests disperse, leaving only a newly formed family.

This family is also faced with the material, money, desires, life, and a host of other trivial things of this society.

No matter how fragile it was when it was first established, it cannot eliminate the real problems it faces.

It's like the responsibilities of both families need to be taken up, the independence of the new family needs to be established, the support of both parents needs to be faced, and the future of the next generation needs to be taken up...

Many, many of these, add up to a huge amount of pressure in a marriage, and these pressures will eventually make the marriage ugly in the face of reality.

So, because marriage is too good to be true? Do you think marriage is a continuation of love? Do you think marriage is a person's commitment to you forever? It's neither.

Marriage is a responsibility and a commitment. He can't stop at any time like a family. Once he chooses, he needs to do everything he can to keep the relationship going.

Love and marriage are fundamentally different.

Balzac once said: love aims at happiness, and marriage aims at a lifetime.

When you are in love you can enjoy the beauty of life and only talk about romantic things.

But once you are married, you have to face a life of trivialities that you never thought of before.

You should know the truth about marriage. The sooner you know, the better. It will help you decide whether to become an urbanity.