I don't want to reunite with my classmates anymore

01

When people reach middle age, they seem to have lost the energy they had when they were young, but they still remember their youthful days, and they still recall the pure feelings of their classmates.

When people reach middle age, they experience the trials and tribulations of life and understand the warmth of human feelings in this world.

Dating said: "people to middle age, iron heart, plastic liver, and gall, timid in deep feelings, lack of warm blood. Too lazy to make deep friends, too lazy to be as young as the arbitrary bonding. Not world-weary, but this half-life in the sea of people far away used to seeing the mirage, gradually knows that the bottom of life is sad.

The first thing you need to do is to get back to the good old days and try to get some warmth from them.

The fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. The first time I met you, I swore that I'd still be there.

Maybe this era is progressing fast, maybe everything is changing, but the original heart has not changed. The time of goodbye still can be like a teenager so reckless.

But, often the ideal is very rich, and reality is very bone.

02、No contact for a long time, classmate love faded away

Efforts to contact all the classmates, set a good time, a familiar face almost all as promised.

However, looking at their eyes, and now their dress, and uncomfortable attitude, have to admit that everything has changed.

Once see one side, will be very excited, a fist on the shoulder of the good buddies. Now, when people meet again in middle age, they become very formal, unfamiliar to extend a hand, shaking hands after, and smile and greetings.

"Long time no see, you have not changed, look at me, the hair has also fallen, the stomach also protrudes, walking down the street, I'm afraid I can not recognize me."

"Where were we have both aged, but fortunately, there is still a chance to meet again."

Even if they are extremely strange, they have never compromised on reality, trying hard to chat back to the past, trying to cross the time dimension and find the shadow of what once was. Imagine that I am still the same teenager, you are still the mannish girl, we are still in that era to be that happy.

The fact is that you can't go back to the same place.

It seems that the topic of conversation between classmates is about the present, where to get high, what occupation to do, how much money you can earn, and whether you can have business dealings.

As if this topic is the only one that can be talked about more and more exciting, not to talk about, are some obscure. There is not much to build people, just silent dinner, and others clinking glasses, can not mention any interest.

03, classmates gathering, the habit of secretly climbing

Go to middle age, once the simplicity, is gone. The rest is climbing, is the vanity.

Wine three or five cups down, the words are gradually more up, those who talk about, I do not know is bragging, or this kind of talk more, have become the inevitable words to say at the table.

The annual salary can have how much money, home in what kind of villa, a set of sofas hundreds of thousands, and a car, can top several sets of houses. For so many years, everything has poor only money left ......

There are also female students, discussing how expensive cosmetics are, carrying tens of thousands of a bag, the husband's value can be ten million, and at every turn is the president of a certain company.

From head to toe, from house to car, from lover to child, there is nothing that can not be compared, there is nothing that can not be taken out to show off.

The reunion has become tasteless, originally wanted to catch up and find happiness, but did not expect, to let themselves be sadder and sadder.

This kind of reunion is completely different from what you think, it is no longer a simple party, but a place of fame and fortune, a stage to show off yourself, and a chance to find something that will help you.

It seems to be wrong from the beginning, once teenage you and I, perhaps all very pure. But go to middle age, all become familiar strangers, need to re-acquaint themselves one by one, but also need to re-confront their three views.

04、Walking to middle age, never want to the reunion

Roland said, "The beautiful thing from time to time is because it is sincere."

Since goodbye, there is no longer that sincere at the beginning, and why spend money and waste time?

When people reach middle age, they gather their friends and classmates together, and they can't find a single bit of happiness. Since they are destined to be separated and destined to have been a passerby in each other's lives, why should they see each other again?

They are left in the memory, there will be a trace of thoughts, not because of goodbye, those "ugly" gestures, and destroy the heart of the good feelings.

I don't want to see you again, but also want to keep a persistent memory, and stay in the memories. At least when you think about it, your heart is still sincere and you can still feel some warmth.

As if, there is always a piece of pure land in the heart, left in that beautiful time inside the teenager.

Perhaps this is enough to cherish the past, there is no need to gather them on the same occasion, so that each person's heart is mixed, without a trace of meaning.

After people reach middle age, they tend to have a very rich experience, but also some will be full of frustration, some usher in their success, and some will fall to the bottom.

Each person's life situation is different, some may be in the office building office, some will be a big boss, and some, just ordinary employees, or small businesses.

When these people get together because of the identity of "old classmates", what kind of innocent feelings are gone, only left with the heart of merit, the intention of showing off, as well as difficult to prevent difficult to avoid the "dark arrows" that come head on.

05

The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.

Putting classmate love, left in the memories, is perhaps the most important thing to do.

Look at the reality, do not go delusional, after everyone's life has changed, that innocent love is still there, still will not change.

The people are gone, we should look forward, in life, there are finally some friends, never leave. If you can't stay, don't force yourself to stay.

People in middle age, learn to leave some time for themselves, cooking wine and flowers, to steal some leisure time, but also has its wonderful taste, worth enjoying.

The fact is that you will be able to get a good deal on your own, and also you will be able to get a good deal on your own.

When a person reaches middle age, give up some meaningless socializing, and quietly, enjoy the good times!