Relationship Goals

Have you had your share of heartbreak? Sure. Everyone has. Some are worse than others. Those heartbreaks stick with people, changing them into what they are now. It can be both good and bad, depending on how the person responds to it. Discussing the avoidance of heartbreak, both partners need to understand each other. Whether it is personality or emotional, both parties need to understand each other thoroughly. Communication is key.

Money. It is something couples usually fight over. Who pays for dinner? Who pays for lunch? Who pays the bills? It all depends on how both parties' spending and saving habits usually are. Money is something that doesn't just fall from the sky. Losing money is the key to what couples argue over. Not having money isn't the issue. Some couples stay with each other through thick and thin. Having a lot of money isn't the problem either. It can be. Some people only love others just for their money and not the person themselves. Course, those kinds of gold diggers will always end up where they belong, the trash.

Even when couples take turns paying for dates, they still tend to argue over the amount of money spent on their dates. One bill might've been; more expensive or cheaper. They try to keep it even or fair. Exact change thing. They still argue about it. Yet, it seems so even. There is a simple solution to the; money problems, dates, and restless nights of arguing. If both parties really understand each other, they would know how much they need to save rather than spend. Picnics, walking, and romantic nights at home are always good ways to go on dates without spending much. Most people don't need grand, fancy dates to keep themselves happy; they are nice to have every once in a while. Be happy and share that happiness.

Dishonesty is a major. It's all the lies and secrets. Disloyalty falls into the category. Cheating, betrayal, and lies are what breaks most people's hearts, shattering the person's world and views on love; making them wonder if they have the courage to try it again with someone new. Becoming distant from people, paranoid, or giving up on love altogether are results of disloyalty and dishonesty. People have dreams of the perfect white-picket-fence home and family, but very few achieve that amazing dream today. Let's not get onto Disney for lying to us yet. If people want that happily ever after, they need to work for it. Be honest. Be loyal.

Dealing with heartbreak is simple. Hanging out with friends, doing your favorite hobbies, exercising, looking at the positives, bettering yourself; are all great ways of dealing with your heartbreak. Rebounds, drug use, one night stands are never the answers. People may think trying to hook up with someone else is a good idea, but it's only bringing another person into the issue, especially if the person isn't over their last partner. Substance use is never an option, nor should it be an option. One night stands always end badly. Waking up next to a stranger should never be done. Self-love and self-respect are what will help heal a broken heart.

Focusing on yourself, setting goals for yourself, and not with a partner will go a long way. Set your future before sharing it with someone else. Depend on yourself; know that you can do it.