People who can talk, as soon as they open their mouths, they win

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Seriously, when it comes to relationships, emotional intelligence is much more important than IQ.

How hard is it to fall in love with someone with low emotional intelligence? There is an example around.

Once and a friend ate together, at a table of six people, and one of the single twenty years of boys finally found a girlfriend, and said to bring her out to meet us, "to raise eyebrows" a little.

As a result, may be too want to show up in front of us, the whole meal, he has been teasing his girlfriend.

The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.

See the girl's face can not hang, eyes are red with anger, the boy put down his chopsticks and said, not just a couple of jokes? And began to make, the two of you a word I quarreled, the girl wiped her tears and said, I can not say you, do not wait for the end of the meal and ran away.

The boy said, should not be spoiled, too made. A good meal, eaten unusually awkward, not to mention his girlfriend hard, we all were also made to be a bad person inside and out, persuasion is, not persuasion is not.

It is estimated that the girl is secretly sighing unlucky, how to find such a low intelligence of the boyfriend.

Why in love there will always be this kind of people, feel happy to coax the other half is very humiliating, too good for TA is very nasty, must use control to appear to each other to submit to their charm.

They may not be so rude in private, but in front of friends is very like to belittle their significant other, thinking that yelling to yell takes dignity.

But who says love must be a relationship of control and submission? With high emotional intelligence and high character so that the other party sigh, body and soul to enjoy with you, is not the "more clever means"?

You do not pay attention to your lover, in front of outsiders open sarcastic TA, hit TA's self-esteem, people angry or rebuttal you say TA unreasonable do not understand, in the outsiders seem low emotional intelligence and the unreasonable person is you ah.

The magic of love is to make people even pay to feel wonderful, is to make ta become better, want to ta good, want to pull out their hearts and lungs to give ta all.

So what we should do is appreciate each other's needs, understand each other's emotions, and give each other what they want. Our return will be each other more intense love.

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Many people think that the workplace or interpersonal relationships need to spell emotional intelligence, but, the lack of emotional intelligence in love, often makes one party exhausted and the other party not know and becomes the key to the ultimate relationship break up.

The "straight male cancer" that young people are always complaining about today is not a criticism of men themselves, but a lot of people complain that some men are not reasonable and understanding enough in their relationships.

Let's take an analogy.

The girl said that she had worn new shoes, but she had to take her for a walk on the road.

The first time to see a girl's parents, did not bring a gift even if the door even aunts and uncles forget to say good, but also think that anyway have been together, it does not matter what the etiquette ......

Low emotional intelligence is so abhorrent, then how in the end do to talk about an "emotional intelligence" of love it?

Emotional intelligence mainly includes the following aspects: 1.

1, the correct identification and expression of their own emotions.

2, quickly identify TA's emotions.

3, through communication, behavior, and other ways to regulate the other half of the emotions.

Lovers with high emotional intelligence possess empathy. When talking, can stand in each other's shoes, cause each other's emotions to resonate, can make people feel understood, and get along comfortably.

Lovers with high emotional intelligence not only make their significant other feel comfortable in the relationship but also allow their emotions to be expressed reasonably.

People with high emotional intelligence are always well received by others in both life and work and can get more opportunities as a result.

High emotional intelligence is not innate or set in stone. The more we experience and the more we know, the more our emotional intelligence will increase. Anyone has the potential to become a high EQ person.

Low EQ is not necessarily hopeless, but the most fearful of low EQ and do not know it, still trapped in their world of illusion, do not know how to reflect.

Improve their emotional intelligence, you will reap the initiative of life. And want to improve emotional intelligence, first from the correct understanding of their emotional intelligence level to start.