My Ex Boyfriend Still Hasn't Contacted Me (My Ex Boyfriend Hasn't Contacted Me In A Week)

Do you find yourself restless to get your ex to call you back? Do you find yourself pleading to your ex to pick up the phone, and then keep on being disappointed when nothing happened? Do you find yourself aching in the heart, not able to resist yourself from picking up the phone and dialing his or her number, only to be disappointed with his or her mailbox voices playing?

Whenever you're in a conflict, your mind is not reliable enough to judge what action you should take. Your action will be controlled by your emotion, and when emotion collided, you will not be getting back together with your ex. You will need to have a "magic" in order to bring your ex back.

And let me tell you one secret way of putting your words together to pique your ex and get him or her to call you back, as soonest possible.

There are two most powerful forces in the human mind that can guide one's action: curiosity and self interest. Combining these two elements, you will have a recipe that will work magic in your love. You need to let your ex's to be curious and have their self-interest satisfied to get him or her to call you back. Get him wonder and questioning himself or herself.

As an example, try saying these words instead of pleading to your ex:

"Hi Mike, its Nancy. I wanted to let you know that I appreciate what you've done for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."

That is how you use both curiosity and self-interest. Mike will not be able to resist calling you because he will be wondering "what things do she appreciated" and "how did she want to thank me?" He will feel good because it's a positive message, and it's not pleading!

But, before you call him or her, remember that you need to do some "set-up". You need to figure out what he or she did that you can appreciate. It can be any small things, but it need to be plausible. It needs to be something he or she cannot expect. Setup a strategy to make up with him.

Down and Dirty Sneaky Trick to Get Him Back Into Your Arms

In order to get him back you only need to do one thing and one thing only. That is to make him more attracted to you than he is anyone else. I realize that might seem easier said than done but you need to read on to learn a sneaky trick that you've never even thought of.

Obviously, enhancing your physical appearance is the first thing that pops into your mind and that's a good idea. However, you can be a little more specific. Sure, a few new outfits will help and maybe even a new hairstyle. However, think of it this way.

What are the things that he always complemented you about? Did he love your eyes? Your legs? Your smile? Try enhancing those things first. It's basically a way of saying "Hey look at what you're missing". It will definitely give you an edge. However, there's much more to attraction than physical appearance. If you're going to get him back, you need to see the big picture.

There are so many elements involved that determine what attracts us to another. Some are personal preference, as we've already discussed, and some are simply human nature. What I'm talking about here is self-interest. We are selfish by nature and we act and react to things based on what we feel is in our own best self-interest. That being said, if you want to get him back, make him think it's in his best interest to do so. The trick is figuring out how to do that.

Well, besides the physical enhancements we talked about earlier, you can simply put some thoughts in his head to make him think it's his idea to get back together. Kind of like baiting him and letting him hook himself. This is the first step to get him back.

No matter how hard it may be at first, no matter where you go or who you are with, smile. I know that sounds corny but it is so true and here is why. When you are always seen smiling, it will get back to your ex. He will wonder why you aren't upset and will be attracted to your self confidence. On top of that, always walk tall. Think of it this way. Would you be more attracted to a guy that is slumped over and sulking or one that is wearing a bright smile and very self confident? I rest my case.

Now here is the sneaky part. I say sneaky because he won't see it coming. Since he broke up with you, just let him know that you agree with his decision. Don't go into detail or anything. Just let him know that you agree with the break up but you need to add just a little bit more. Tell him that things have really turned around for you and that something wonderful has happened. Now stop there. Don't say anything more. Make him wonder what you're talking about. It will drive him crazy. He won't be able to stop thinking about it. You will make his mind race with the possibilities and you'll be on your way to getting him back.

Of course it does have to be something real. However, it come be something as benign as you've learned that you are stronger than you thought. The trick is to not tell him what it is. Make him wonder but just make sure it is something real.

As I said earlier, there are many facets involved in the attraction of one person to another and you need to learn about all of them, not just the obvious ones if you truly want to get him back.

These are the first steps in a proven strategy to get your ex back? It doesn't stop here, though. What you do next is crucial to get your ex back. Don't throw away your chances by not knowing what to do next. To read the shocking revelation that holds the final key to get your ex back visit: Ex Back Guide

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