Middle-aged people, smart people have already seen through the truth of the three human nature, wish you can understand as soon as possible

We're all moving along on our own. We don't know what's ahead. We're all moving forward with our heads buried.

Some roads only know how hard it is to walk through how tired, some truth can only be understood in depth.

Many things in life need to be experienced and felt before they can be deeply perceived. No matter how much others persuade them, it is not as deep as going by yourself.

But there are also some people until the old, also live not sober enough, a life immersed in a confused state, think of such people also have advantages, rare confusion is also a blessing.

Middle age is often a very important point in life, but also a very key checkpoint, both in life and career have encountered pressure and challenges, mentally become more mature, and made an unprecedented leap.

At this stage, many things that were not seen in the past have become clear, and some truths about life and human nature have become clearer and clearer.

Here are three truths that really smart people already know, and that I hope you will soon learn, too.

The relationship between people, the interest is eternal

Before always put the friendship very heavy, feel that there is a pure relationship between people, such cognition has been accompanied by a long time.

In the beginning, of course, the people around us were very sincere, just eating, drinking, and playing with each other, without any disputes, except for a few small fights, otherwise peaceful.

But later slowly found that most of the relationship is interested in the tie, a lot of people around you, because you are profitable, if one day you are down and out, so natural scarce, especially desolate.

When people reach middle age, they are used to the conflicts between interests and see through the sinister hearts of people. Some people call you brothers and brothers on the surface, but they can betray you and put you together. Some people seem to have a good relationship with you, but you never know what they are saying about you behind your back.

Few people treat you. Even the so-called family love is reduced to a joke in front of interests. When you have no way out, no one is willing to help you.

Even love is so, what "in the sky is willing to make wing to wing, in the ground is willing to tie" is only a good hope, after all, most love relationship is very fragile, not as strong as we imagine. And when you can't keep up with him, you get disgusted.

Do not imagine that love is very solid and complete, do not rely on anyone, only to make yourself strong is the right way.

People who look down on you will always look down on you, don't have to prove to anyone

In this world many things are fair, we will meet all kinds of people, among these people, some people warm you love you, some people despise you look down on you, this is relative.

The more we face people who look down on us, the more we want to prove it to them and change their attitude towards us.

But later found that those who look down on you, no matter what you become, no matter how promising you are, the bone still looks down on you, not because you changed your attitude to you have changed.

Wu Xin once said on a variety show that she wanted to prove herself for some time, but later she found that those who don't like you will never like you. The most important thing is to be brave and be yourself.

If the value of our life is to be respected by those who look down on us, and we live to take care of their feelings and opinions, we will only bring ourselves regret in the end, because we will miss a lot of scenery along the way and lose ourselves in the end.

In Menghualu, Song Yinzhang was deceived twice by men to get rid of this shackle. Only in the end did she realize that the so-called character does not lie on the outside, but on the inside. Later, she no longer cared too much about this point, and finally lived her own life.

The most important thing is to have a clear conscience. As long as you do your best, the rest will take its course. You only need to live your own life and don't have to care about others' eyes.

People should be pleased with their own, the most should be treated is the family

Along the way, many of you may have lost, confused, loved the wrong people, or lost yourself to someone who didn't deserve it.

To love a person and let yourself humble to the dust, to save a person, let yourself humble such as soil.

In love, often because the other side too much, and forget to love yourself.

We are all this way along the way, have stepped on some holes, through some detours. Until later to understand, originally we have been the wrong direction, only love yourself first, to better love.

When you are nice to others, they may not care how you feel but will use your kindness and love to bully and hurt you over and over again. Only love yourself well, all your efforts will be rewarded.

When people reach middle age, they have a deep understanding of human nature, and gradually understand that the world is good to us, hope that we are good people is family, only they will always forgive us, no matter what time, has been standing beside us, encourage us only they.

Give up some ineffective social interaction, and spend more energy on spending time with your family and pleasing yourself. When you do this, you will be truly happy, joyful, and content.

People in middle age, a lot of things should be let go, don't persist some shouldn't persist and don't waste energy and time on some unworthy people.

Don't know that he is not true to you until he is cheated by people hurt, only use, don't see yourself because of anyone, the most important thing is to live your own life. Don't please anyone, the most should please yourself.

After living most of my life, I will focus more on myself, give my time to my family, and give it to the people who deserve to be treated by heart.