Life is short, learn to let go

Mader once said: What a person needs to solve in his life is not what he should want, but what he should not want.

Being obsessed with desires, too painful to let go of, will only disturb your inner peace. Learn to reconcile with yourself, let go of yourself, keep a kind and gentle heart, and live out your true self in the secular world.

I deeply think so.

Life is short, instead of continuing to struggle with mundane things, it is better to learn to let go.

01

do your best

No one can be smooth sailing, they have to go through ups and downs in life, winds and frosts, rain and snow.

You don't need to be too obsessed with success or failure, and you don't need to work too hard. Your energy is limited, you can't be perfect in everything, and you can do everything.

Regardless of fame, fortune, wealth, and wealth, it is not as important as a healthy body.

As the saying goes: people make things happen, success depends on heaven, three points depend on hard work, and seven points are destined by heaven.

Everyone has their own life, don't be too anxious, concentrate on walking the road in front of you, do your best, and leave the rest to time.

You have to believe that God never disappoints serious people, they try their best in everything, and they are worthy of themselves, and what you want will naturally come to you.

02

Bearish on the gains and losses

We always put too much energy and time into those things that are not available or have been lost.

The past is in the past, the people and things we missed can no longer come back, and we no longer need to sigh and regret the past.

Don't embarrass yourself, forget what you have in the past; let go of what you lost; let go of what you have gained; look down on it even if you have it.

Life is a process of constant gain and constant loss. If you always care about everything and want everything, it is like sand in your palm. The tighter you hold it, the faster it will be lost, and the more you will lose.

Life is already so difficult, why can't you live with yourself? Spread your hands, relax your heart, and you can get more.

03

Clear the past

In the dead of night, everyone will inevitably think of some unforgettable past events that they don't want to mention, and then they can't sleep.

You know that those things in the past, no matter how hard you work now, no matter how many tears you save, will be futile.

There's no point other than plunging myself into deeper grief.

Those who have hurt you, let go; those things that embarrass you, let go. Let all the past go with the wind.

Don't let yourself struggle with the past, because it will only make you miss more and more beautiful scenery.

In life, you don't have to be too harsh on yourself, get rid of your fatigue, take the present as a starting point, clear the past, and start everything from scratch.

04

Know how to let go

As the saying goes: You can't keep those who want to leave; those who love you never need you to stay.

Indeed.

When someone loves you, cherish him and give back to him with the same affection. If you can't love any more, just let go and let go.

Too many people don't know how to stop losses in time. Just because they are not reconciled, they struggle with the past. In the end, they make a mess and they can only leave the market bleak. It is worth the loss.

Calm down and think about it, life is yours, don't let those irrelevant people and things drag down your life, and don't let them break your vision and expectations for the future.

The rest of your life is short, you have to learn to let go. When you are happy, your life will be bright.

05

love yourself

Writer Nina once said: If you want to live a sober life or to be happy, you must love yourself.

I deeply think so.

In one's life, if you don't know how to love yourself, it's really hard to be happy.

We always hope that others will like us, and even spend a lot of time and energy to please others, but we only miss ourselves.

But if you give all your love to others, what can you use to love yourself?

Oscar Wilde once said: Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

Parents who grew up with us will gradually grow old; former close friends will gradually become estranged; lovers who are close to each other may also forget each other in the rivers and lakes; children who take good care of them will eventually grow up and leave you...

In the long river of time, the only thing you can control is yourself, love yourself well, your happiness is never in the eyes of others, but in your own heart.

May you learn to let go, and learn to love yourself more. From now on, you won't remember the past, and you won't mention the future. You will always be free and easy, happy and healthy.