I must reach Home by 10 O'clock

Not sure it's a culture, safety, care, or something else.

Yes, it's not happening across the entire world.

But it's almost happening across the entire world.

When we are planning something with friends and suddenly hear words, I must reach Home by 10 O'clock.

And randomly,

What?

Ohh

Let's change the plan

It's okay

You guys carrion

We will reach very soon

Don't worry

She is not just kind, she is more important to family, friends, and many.

She sacrifice, she let go of many things, she agrees to many things, and follows.

She is not only doing her work, but she also helps others in her work.

Women are strong, even they have standards and boundaries.

She has many boundaries in life with respect to her family, friends, and work.

Countlessly, she got fewer options, opportunities, and offers in her family in one or the other way.

Not sure why like that.

In the family, if everyone gets new pair of clothes, she might get only one or nothing.

If her siblings get permission to trip, but she won't get it, suppose got it only because of a few strict conditions.

Sometimes she feels freedomless in her own life.

Most of the time she needs to serve for nothing.

She cannot make a decision on her own.

Yeah, that's not fair right.

To express yourself needs a reason, but expressing yourself is the reason.

So what's the solution?

She cannot fight with her own family.

If she expresses herself, like what she wanted and how others living in the same world with their family.

Her family may hit her with the small statement like, Don't tell us others' stories.

If she tries to lie, nevertheless she won't sustain telling lies. She wants to fly with the full permission of her family. She cannot explain how she feels to everybody.

She wants to talk and express herself to her family with daring, circumstances won't allow her, or family will not take it as a serious or try to ignore her feelings about something.

In many families, she is just treated as an outsider, even she is most kinder to everyone.

At the last, she starts controlling everything by emitting a heavy and small drop of tear in the eye.

Moreover, Words are enough to express the gratitude that you deserve for all that you have done for everyone.

The question is why always she?

Anyone can still be with patience if more than twice and less than five, times heard the word No.

If she hears more than the limited number of No's, for her permission.

She will stop sharing or asking if it's even small too. Because she will touch the peek of No things, like my family won't like this, my family won't agree for this, it's not possible in my family.

We have heard, Whatever it may be just try to share and express yourself. But it's not the case when there is no listener or always there is a negative response from the listener then there is nothing to share and express how many times it may be.

The family is worried because they have seen many families and people in their life and also they have an intention to care and protect from whatever they think is unsafe.

It's hard to say whether a family should listen to her or she should express herself in a better way.

Most of the time your inner words can fully express your feelings.

Like we have heard, Don't judge a book by its cover, likewise, everyone has an intention or mindset that blows the one's living perspective it may be a family or it may be her.

Like we have seen bad and good in life. They, the family, also heard such things so they just want to protect and secure her from the unsafe or bad circumstances.

If family understands you and you understand the family, it will never make you feel lonely, no matter how alone you are.

Some families allow and give permission to her if her group is big and strong or if she has the right choice with the full mindset of what she going to do.

Family may disobey her due to relationship or relatives issues because they want to protect their self-esteem also they don't want to halt their family names.

In certain cases, families don't know what actually are in, they see the world in a smaller way, even the new generation are showed up already. they may be from the small surrounding and they will be in the small mind and a small thinking world. For those, she can explain what happening outside and how they will deal outside.

She has to express how the world is dealing with many circumstances and what if she goes out and she dares to stand with opportunity or career so they can build their own dreams and can achieve whatever they want.

Never lose an opportunity to express yourself to family, because life doesn't guarantee the same opportunities again and again.

So there is an equal responsibility of family and her.

Women are as stronger as men. They need support and equal opportunities as men. There are many scenarios, which encourage women's empowerment.

There is a need to accept women's viewpoints or make an effort to seek them, raising the status of women through education, awareness, literacy, and training.

The strongest action for a woman is to love herself and her family, be herself and shine amongst those who never believed she could.

Always concerning, and promoting women's sense of self-worth, their ability to determine their own choices, and their right to influence social change for themselves and others.

Women are the key to sustainable development and quality of life in the family. The number of roles the women assume in the family is those of wife, leader, administrator, manager of family income and last but not the least important the mother.

Happy Women's Day