How To Get A Second Chance With Your Ex Girlfriend (How To Convince Her To Give You Another Chance)

A while ago I wrote an article for women, which contained some practical (yet counter-intuitive) ideas on how to get back and ex boyfriend after being dumped.

Right now I'm going to do the same thing for all of the guys out there who have just been dumped by the girl they love... or.... are feeling like they might be dumped at any moment.

If you've read that article, you might be surprised to find that my advice for men is fairly similar to what I tell women. Although I am of the firm belief that these ideas are even more effective when used by men, simply because women (as a whole) tend to make more decisions based on how you make them feel. Which means if you play your cards right, you can bring her back into your life more often than not.

Now in my life I've been both the dumped and the dumper. I've been involved in 'mutual' break-ups and I've successfully rekindled romances that you would swear were dead in the water.

Let me tell you, these techniques will work. If you are consistent with them. You can't use them some of the time, and then some of the time do whatever you feel like. OK? And although some of them may seem like the wrong thing to do, just trust me and make the decision to try them out. Because let's be honest. If you've found this article, I'm guessing what you have been trying so far, hasn't been working out.

So, let's get to it. There are three. Just three, main things you need to do to get your girl back in your arms faster than you can say "I just want to talk to you."

But first. You need to buck up. Lets say for a moment she is gone forever. You have to face reality. It is not the worst thing that can happen. You will survive. You will go on to lead a happy life even if it is without her. Plus, moping around like you hate the world is most definitely NOT going to bring her back.

Here's a truth for you. The more you feel like you need something, the less you are going to have it in your life. Now this applies to pretty much everything, but it is especially true when it comes to women.

So what does this mean?

I means that you have to stop acting like your world revolves around her (even if it does). You have to know that although you would prefer to be with her, you do not need her to make you happy.

Got it? OK, now on to those three things to get her back.

Number One. Give up all your attempts to pressure her into coming back. No more criticizing her about her faults or what she may or may not have done in the past. And no more whining. In short, start acting like a Man.

The more pressure you put on her to come back, the less she will want to do it. She'll start to believe that she can have you at any time she wants, and that is when you're screwed.

What you need to do instead is...

Number Two. Agree with her. Yes, you heard me. Agree. She thinks you should 'take a break' or 'see other people for a while'? No problem, say you feel the same way.

"Whoa there! But that's not what I want" I hear you say. Right, but if you fight her on this, if you argue, all you'll do is come off needy and reinforce her decision to break up. But when you agree...

When you agree, you throw her off guard. She's not expecting it. Here's what you say:

"I agree, we should break up. I'd prefer we didn't, but given (what she has told you) you're right."

Number Two (part 2). If she criticizes you, or attacks you in any way, don't come to your own defense. Agree. And watch the claws retract.

Number Three. Act as if you are fine with everything just the way it is. In other words, act happy. Even if you aren't happy, act it. Decide right now to enjoy your life without her. Go out, meet other people. Do things that you might not have had the time for while you were together.

When she sees that you don't need her in your life to be happy, her attraction for you will blossom. Trust me.

Now. While I do advocate dating others during this time, I don't recommend starting a sexual relationship with anyone new if you still want to get back together. However, if you end up finding someone who is better than your ex girlfriend, then by all means go ahead. Just know it may make things a little more complicated down the road.

This isn't everything you need to know to get your girl back in your life. But it is the foundation on top of which every other 'tactic' or 'strategy' needs to be built.

And when you follow the three points above, and actually put them into action in your life, you will be amazed at the results.

Side-note: Whatever you do, whenever you see, talk to, or email your ex... keep the conversation light, happy, and short. Breaking down into a long drawn-out emotional beg-a-thon is the absolute worst thing you can do. So try to avoid that, OK?

How to Convince Your Ex Girlfriend to Get Back Together With You

Relationships are bound to change over time. Unfortunately, some of the time those changes lead to one person just not being happy and wanting out. If that's the case and your ex girlfriend has made it clear that she wants to break up, it can leave you feeling dazed, confused and heartbroken. Before you decide to accept that things are over for good, consider what she means to you. If you still want a future with her, there are things you can do to convince your ex girlfriend to get back together with you.

One way to persuade your ex girlfriend to get back together with you is become a really good, platonic friend to her. Many women actually suggest this to their ex boyfriends. They want to stay in contact, so they throw out the idea of being just friends. Most men, right after a break up, aren't going to feel great about this idea. After all, it's something of a torturous situation to be in. You get to be close to the woman you love but not in a romantic sense. It's beneficial though and can be instrumental towards getting her back. If you can establish yourself as a trustworthy, non-threatening friend to your ex, she'll slowly begin to rely on and confide in you. From there it's only one step towards getting back together again.

Ensure that your ex girlfriend knows that you are making positive changes in your life after the break up. Once a relationship has run its course it's easy for the woman to find many faults with her ex. Those faults are what lead up to the break up and can stand in the way of the couple getting back together. If you want your ex girlfriend to get back together with you become a better version of the man she fell in love with. Focus on making your life the best it can be. You can do this by getting in better shape, earning your degree or volunteering. Show her what a catch you are and she'll start to find you irresistible all over again.

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