How To Convince My Husband To Come Back Home (How To Make My Husband Come Back To Me)

So, you find yourself at a loss without that husband of yours and you want him back. But wisdom tells you that you should chase after him - that he needs to come back to you. So what can you do to make that man of yours high tale it back home where he belongs?

Start Treating your Marriage like a Business Venture

Marriage isn't all romance and fairy-tale love stories. I'm sure you've realized that already. But considering your marriage to be more like a business venture will remove the heartache, and make you focus more on the inner workings of a mutually beneficial arrangement. The bit of perspective will do you both some good.

Make Sure You Know What Went Wrong

You have to know why it failed the first time before you're going to know how to keep him around the second time. Spend enough time understanding what didn't work, and if necessary, change your behavior so that the problem doesn't continue to resurface. Why would he come back to "the same 'ol thing"?

Pull Back Emotionally

One of the biggest problems between men and women is that men just aren't as "emotional". Whether it's due to nature or nurture, the fact is: most men don't know how to deal with highly emotional situations. You may fair better if you act with your emotions reigned in and well under control. It will let him feel safe to come back, knowing he will not be drowning in drama.

Be Realistic

Having clear and realistic expectations of your relationship, and sharing them with him, shows that you're not unreasonable or unwilling to compromise. He'll respect your practicality, and with a logical argument, it won't take much reasoning on his end before he realizes that you're worth additional effort.

Stop Using Sex as A Weapon

Many men leave because sex just seems to stop. Many women use their emotional dissatisfaction as an excuse for not having sex. True, sex can be an expression of love and a means to bond; but it is also a physiological need, and shouldn't be denied for either party if other issues arise. Regular sex is one of the greatest benefits of marriage, so don't be stingy!

Accept Him as He Comes

There are many double standards in life. There are many times that double standards exist in a marriage. You may have to spend hours working out and primping to feel attractive for your man, but that doesn't mean you can expect the same amount of effort on his part. Fair? Hardly, but you may just have to take him as is, and let him know you're satisfied with just that.

Keep Your Word

Don't promise him anything you can't keep your word on. Pillow talk is great for the bedroom, but relationships rely on reliability. If you renegotiate terms of engagement, you owe it to yourself to honor them, so don't so disservice to either of you by making promises you can't keep (and that goes for him too).

Get Your Husband Back - Connect With Him Both Physically and Emotionally

Have you been trying to get your husband back without much success? Have you tried everything that you can think of to get him to talk to you but it seems that he is bound and determined to divorce you? Are you upset and about to lose hope that you will ever be able to get your husband to come home to you?

If you have been spending a lot of time trying to get your husband to talk about the separation and the possibility of getting back together it is not surprising that you haven't gotten him back yet. Chances are he either has turned down offers to attend counseling or if he does come the sessions are pathetic and a waste of time.

The reason why all of this is happening is that your husband doesn't want you or your marriage right now. Also, any attempt to try to force him to even think about getting back together is met with resistance because you are trying to convince him to do something that isn't pleasant to him right now.

So, how do you make him want you and the marriage again? How do you make the thought of being married to you pleasant again? Because once upon a time being married to you was what he wanted. How did you get him to the alter anyhow? You had a connection with him. You and your husband were best friends and the two of you enjoyed spending time together. I am sure that you can come up with some funny and touching memories to prove this point, can't you?

But how do you recreate that connection and make your husband more open to talking about getting back together? How do you get from point A to point B?

Emotionally - It is entirely possible to stir emotions in your husband that both you and he thought were long dead or at least deeply buried. To start, avoid all conversation about the separation or your desire to get back together. Focus on recreating that connection. Treat him as you would a hurt friend. Talk to him in the same way that you would a dear friend that you had a fight with. You can even use the same words to apologize and express how important your friendship was and is.

To go beyond this stage and make your husband open up further you can laugh and bring up nonchalantly some inside jokes or some happy or funny memories that honestly make you laugh. Think out ahead of time different memories and how you can bring them up. Touching his heart in this way and reminding him of what the two of you had with memories and laughter will melt the coldness in his heart and begin to make him vulnerable to your attempts to get him back.

Physically - While you might want to just grab him and seduce him within the first thirty seconds of seeing him this is not recommended and it really might end badly for you and your marriage. Instead be subtle about touching him and connecting with him physically.

As you are talking and joking if the opportunity presents itself, take advantage of any opportunity to make incidental contact with your husband. Touching him on the hand, arm, back, shoulder or even (if you are bold) the side of his face, can bring about a profound emotional connection for your husband. He may not express any emotion or say anything but feeling your touch or caress, especially if it has been a while since you touched him, will be on his mind, maybe even for days afterwards.

There should be no doubt that you can now see that creating a connection with your husband is important to your success in getting him back. If you ever hope to get your husband to come home creating a connection with him is necessary. If you do find yourself at a loss or having issues recreating a connection with your husband there are ways to speed things along and intensify the connection that you wish to create.

It's all up to you! If you don't take this action to save your marriage, then who will?

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