How simple is the pleasure of men

There was once a particularly heartfelt but realistic saying on the Internet, "How to solve the problem? The only thing is to get rich. Focusing on the current situation in today's society, I have to say that the summary is very accurate.

Most of us, are ordinary people of ordinary origin, with no strong family background, no sufficient economic support, and simply can not stand.

I think we should all have heard the classic quote from Nobel Laureate Roman Rolland, "There is only one kind of heroism in the world, which is to see the truth of life and still love it.

Everyone's inner world once lived a heroic dream, especially the boys, who see heroes as idols, but in the money-oriented social climate, life really can not accommodate the pride of the people rooted in the heart.

Money = the core of men's happiness?

We can easily find that there are too many public platforms nowadays, the big V's are selling anxiety on the side, and there are countless financial advertisements placed.

The word anxiety became a national potshot for a while because it is particularly apt and in line with the inner emotional state of contemporary people. Why else would "it's too hard" become the buzzword of the year overnight?

Every year, as the end of the year, approaches, we have the luxury of setting numerous flags as we welcome the new year, but the number of times we are hit in the face reminds us again and again how difficult life is.

Although Buddha and the earth are not worth trying to pull us out of the mire of anxiety, there is no doubt that the anxiety deep inside each of us is still increasing day by day.

Freshly graduated college students stand at the crossroads of the beginning of their lives, embracing a heroic complex, and seeking to change the world, but once they enter the workplace, they realize that to change the world, they must first accept the world's test to see if they are qualified to change.

Young white-collar workers who have already fought in the workplace go to the seemingly high-end office buildings day in and day out, exchanging their tired bodies for a meager income that is not equal to their workload.

Middle-aged people are finally entering a stable stage of income and position, but they are still tormented by a mortgage, car loan, children's education, and parents' retirement.

Everyone is anxious about different things everyone has the same anxiety, and that is because of money. It can be said that money has not only been the core of men's happiness, but also the core and key to the survival life of all human beings.

Anxiety is a derivative of money.

Now the job is no longer the so-called golden rice bowl, the times are changing all the time, and a stable career with high pay is bound to be linked to our ability.

And the wave of the times, we can not guarantee that the job in hand now can still be kept in the future, do not know if the money on the card is enough for us to withstand the unknown risks and challenges, but also can not imagine that in their old age there is not enough capital to live peacefully.

When we were young and carefree, as long as we were satisfied with our current happiness, we were already content, and we naturally had much less anxiety and worry. As adults, we need to be responsible for ourselves, our families, and our loved ones, and the burden on our shoulders ultimately depends on the amount of money.

Later on, when we look back, we feel that these are just trivial things because we already had them, so the previous burdens seem insignificant, but when these burdens were put down, they were not at the age when we wanted them most.

We seem to be dominated by money and anxious about it, but it is because of the cost of our time. We can give some very simple examples to illustrate this.

Most little girls in their early years long for pretty little dresses, fun Barbie dolls, or whatever else they want, only to find that when we grow up and buy them back, we don't have the same impulse and desire for them as when we were kids.

The reality is always too ironic and contradictory, we spend our lives in pursuit of a secure and carefree life but inadvertently repeat the same mistakes.

Men's sex = marriage?

As superior animals, we all have primitive desires, let alone men who are jokingly referred to as thinking with their lower bodies. But in modern civilized society, the right and legal sex only exist in love and marriage.

There was a very hot topic on the Internet before, about the ratio of the number of men and women in the country derived from the population survey, men than women more than 30 million people, the data results sparked a hot debate among citizens.

The data show that modern men are even more difficult, it is already not easy to survive in society, not to mention the right to choose a spouse, but even more, people are speechless.

The pressure on men is not simply limited to the worries of the last era, to make a joke, in this era, if boys do not double their efforts, it will be difficult to even get a wife.

We can see from the news that modern women's social status is rising, the concept of realizing their value is leading them to self-confidence and self-improvement, to break out of their world, not dependent on the qualities of others and the existence of many traditional thinking of the male more no choice, but to give women the choice of spouse screening conditions and additional options.

Choose a spouse to form a family, not just idol drama love flood can do, invisible money and material requirements we know with a little understanding, grounded, even if you are lucky enough to marry a wife, but if you cannot earn money and potential, she will not follow you through life.

Because now women are not without you can not live, their value gives them the right to freedom of choice, and you have no right to interfere.

We, as the crowd, will discuss the entertainment industry, most female celebrities are eager to marry into a rich family, the reason for this speculation, the meaning behind it, I think we all know.

Falling on our ordinary people, is that each pair of young couples to meet the parents, the parents are most concerned about the point, undoubtedly the house and car, and these, have been linked to money, poor couples, so that no material basis as a condition, how do we talk about marriage? And how to talk about happiness?

Face = dignity or work?

Of course, most parents will not be difficult for young people who have not long entered society, they will not take money as a hard condition, but in their hearts, there is a test standard, is the work and occupation of men.

This is a test of their character in the world and to examine their potential to work hard for their future lives. After all, in modern society, most people who have a career will be more confident and attractive. In other words, the face is the sum of dignity and work, because, with work, we live with face and dignity.

Do not underestimate any small occupation, because this is the source of income necessary for our survival in this society, but also the general scope of our future choice of partner, as the saying goes, you are what kind of person, to attract what kind of people close to you.

The epidemic has made it difficult for the country to overcome the epidemic, and I think we figured out a lot of things when we were at home without work, and many people lost their jobs and income because of the epidemic.

These are reminders that we have been complaining for a long time, and also collapsed for a long time, but finally choosing to persist in the occupation, which is fundamental to our life.

It is not that we choose the job, but the job is choosing us. This is the cruelest truth of this society.

During the epidemic, we must have been concerned about the discussion about the cost of treatment. Many people, after seeing the high cost, were lamenting that if there was no national support, by us, we could say that we basically could not afford it, because many of our grassroots people could not even maintain the most basic life.

The country vigorously resumed work and production, to help us solve the problem of life. After the resumption of work and production, we can work, have income, to maintain life.

Some time ago, the trend of overspending was popular among young people, who overspent and overspent in the name of loving themselves and treating themselves well. We don't judge good or bad, but just want to advise, especially after this epidemic, we should all understand that we can't cope with the vagaries of life without some savings on us.

For people who always jump from job to job, always greedy for timely enjoyment, this epidemic is also a painful lesson, without a stable job, no reserve habit, how are we going to cope with the future of life?

Men's happiness = sex + money + face (dignity + work)

We all say that the more we grow up, the more restless we become, and the less likely we feel happy, not because our happiness is decreasing, but because the dimension of our happiness is increasing.

Work, and material savings, are the bottom of our dignity to live, but also the invisible conditions of our marital happiness, but also the simplest and purest joy we were born to be.

Our society, impetuous and noisy clamor, do not be so easily brainwashed, we need to understand that those slogans, those hot trends, are also a job for them, is also the source of their income, and we, need to be clear, we have to learn to survive first, to live well.

Do not suffer because of their naivety and social beatings when still crying about why the world treats you unfairly, as a qualified adult, the right to be happy is in their own hands.

Men are also people, their happiness is similar to everyone, the lower body has sex, the upper body has a face, there is money in the pocket, money, and work to ensure survival, marriage, and dignity to maintain happiness, how can such a life is not happy?