How Do We Know We Like It? Between Passion And Love

When we love, the thrill is indescribable, one that simply does not fit in any pattern, and more than that, it does not fit in us. When we want, our heart seems to widen and become the whole universe, and in it, we want to include everything.

How do we know we like it or how do we know we love or want something ?! It's simple! We do not know. Pure reason makes its presence felt, it falls under the clouds of our minds and when we expect less, we are undisciplined, we no longer respond to calls, we no longer meet needs, but we simply give ourselves to the one on whom our attention can be directed.

A soul cannot live without love, just as nobody can live without sex, and in the best cases, although they do not sit together, they complement each other. It is said that you cannot have wild sex with your loved one, because that overdose of respect, inhibition, and reason occurs when you have an animal outburst, but how do we know that we like it that way and not the other way around ?!

Why not get rid of the person who should be like the mirror of our soul and why not be open like the gates of heaven ?!

People get carried away by desires, passions, undeciphered cries, and when they are about to commit a "crime" they wonder how they got to that level! Many men cheat on their wives, often with someone younger, many women cheat on their boyfriends, usually with someone more handsome and without a belly, who does not come home smelling of beer or office or construction work.

And how do we know we like this if the reason doesn't help us get answers? It all comes down to physical attraction. After all, we are just robots covered in flesh and endowed with a soul, but we can say that inside us are a series of positive magnets and a series of negative magnets, and when we meet the person who contains our opposite, these mechanisms are attracted or repelled as appropriate.

It can often happen that they make mistakes and make the wrong connections, but it can also happen that they make these connections and then break them because the magnets are not strong enough. But in the end, the law of attraction makes us all robots, and our body responds or not to the stimuli of the environment, and the moment we get to fall prey to the mechanism we have no escape.

In some stronger people, reason or the desire to resist intervenes, being motivated by the inner power they want to show, but unfortunately for them, abstinence is much harder than sin.

How do we know we like it when we have sex ?! Here the equation is perhaps as complicated or as simple as that of attraction, as when you simply love or want. People are made of feelings, physiological and neological factors.

Humans cannot stand without each other on this planet and more than that, people cannot stand without holding on. Just like in a "boss-employee" relationship, one has more power, one has less and if the conditions are not met, then the balance is broken and something negative happens. Sex is considered to be one of the greatest sins but also the most pleasurable, practiced worldwide by individuals of all ages, social classes, religions, etc., and sex certainly has many more followers than Christianity, Buddhism, and Hinduism. at one point, it became more severe as a drug for many individuals.

The law of attraction, in the case of sex, makes its presence felt again and works according to its own rules. Often this question "how do we know we like it" finds its answer and it should not be heard or spoken out loud. Some things are simply made to feel, to be there, hidden, somewhere, where not even the most rational and outspoken people can penetrate.

Probably the sensations can be described in words, but in no case can they acquire a true form of what it means and in the end, one can resort to metaphors such as the metaphor of love, which takes the form of a wave of butterflies in the stomach. But what is sex? Or rather, what is an orgasm? Probably a much stronger wave of butterflies, but more transient and certainly less painful than love.