How do establish a child's "sense of right and wrong"? These are unhealthy parent-child relationships that parents should avoid

A good sense of right and wrong begins in early childhood. Usually, when a child is two years old, he or she will have a sense of shame. Once a child makes a mistake, the child's sense of shame will begin to emerge, and parents should seize the opportunity to guide their children properly.

The internet reported a story about a young pregnant mother who was hit by a bicycle behind her while crossing the street. As a nervous pregnant mother, she blamed the boy on the bicycle and the boy's mother. The pregnant mother thought it was because the boy's mother did not do a good job of promoting the boy that the obligation led to the incident. However, surprisingly, the boy's mother did not apologize to the pregnant woman but instead blamed the steepness of the road for the accident.

Such a lack of "right and wrong" family education happens in every corner. The parents' subjective awareness is the key to guiding their children to establish a sense of right and wrong. It is the lack of family education that leads to the absence of a child's sense of right and wrong. It is important to know that establishing a correct sense of right and wrong will help not to guide children on the right track in life. The importance of "right and wrong" in life

1. A sense of right and wrong helps children take control of themselves

Many children know that they have done something wrong, but they can not control their behavior, it is because children lack a good "sense of right and wrong". In reality, many children often lack attention and have difficulty controlling their emotions, which is due to the lack of "right and wrong". The reason for this is that these children lack control and are not willing to admit where they are wrong. It is important to understand that only when a child has a correct sense of right and wrong can the child take control of himself or herself.

2. Does a "sense of right and wrong" help build a sense of responsibility?

Most children usually have a clear understanding of behavior, they know the rules of behavior, but often due to their pessimistic position, they lack a sense of responsibility and can not control their behavior. Many children will make mistakes to get the attention of their parents, and if parents do not stop their children's behavior in time so that they can establish a correct sense of right and wrong, the children will not be able to establish their sense of responsibility.

3. "Right and wrong" will affect the child's character

When a child lacks a correct sense of "right and wrong," the child will lack the ability to distinguish between the right and wrong things, and long-term acceptance of the wrong concept, and the influence of bad habits will be affected by the child's personality will change, and begin to irritable, irritable, annoying. Children who have developed a correct sense of right and wrong, and who have been influenced by a good sense of right and wrong for a long time, have developed good habits and a strong sense of tolerance, and these children are loved by their teachers and classmates.

The deviation between "right and wrong" will have a very important impact on the life of children. Only when parents help their children establish a good sense of right and wrong can they control their sense of self, regulate their behavior, build a good character, and establish a sense of responsibility for things. It is also only with good social concepts that children can establish proper family relationships with their parents. These unhealthy parent-child relationships have a big impact

1. Authoritarian family relationship

In an authoritarian family relationship, the parents have strict control over the child's every move, and the child is required to unconditionally obey the parents' requirements, and once the child appears rebellious behavior, will be severely reprimanded by the parents. In such a family relationship, the child rarely understands the reason for the behavior and is unable to develop a sense of self independently, and the child lacks parental attention and support. Over time, in such a family, the child will develop a two-sided personality, extreme anxiety, lack of trust, and even extreme revenge.

2. Indulging in new family relationships

Many parents, out of love and care for their children, are extremely indulgent to their children, not only do not regulate the behavior of their children, and even meet the child's various unreasonable demands. When children grow up in such a family life for a long time, they will lack the guidance of their parents and will not be able to establish a correct concept of right and wrong, and lack a mature character and heart.

3. Dishonest family relationships

Many parents are accustomed to making off-the-cuff promises to their children and not keeping their self-promises. Most children may not be able to remember their parents' sincere advice, but they will remember their parents' promises. Parents who often break their promises to their children will not trust them and may even pass on the wrong values to their children. The child will see lying as a common occurrence and may even lie to counteract parental discipline.

Family relationships are a prerequisite for helping children develop a good sense of right and wrong. Only when parents and children have a good parent-child relationship can children receive the right values to guide them to establish a good sense of right and wrong. It is important to understand that overindulgence and harsh teaching can cause children to establish a wrong concept of right and wrong, which will affect the future direction of their lives.