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The essence of social interaction is the exchange of values

By Heineman BarreraPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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# 1 What works for you is what works for your circle of friends.

There are times when we want to expand our network.

But an excellent circle is not by eating in, nor by drinking in, but by each other's strength and confidence to attract.

If you want to be close to a great man, you have to work hard to become a great man.

Most of the time, the essence of social interaction is the exchange of values.

When you're not strong enough, you're not outstanding enough, you're not good enough, and instead of looking around for high-level networking, you're better off improving and perfecting yourself.

Because when you're useful, your connections are useful.

Rule two: Never try to take advantage of a friend.

People communicate with each other heart for heart.

Be nice to others when they are nice to you.

Don't always want something from others, either financially or emotionally.

No one is obliged to buy you dinner all the time, no one owes you anything by nature, and no one should help you with all your problems.

Between people, there is an emotional account.

If you just take money out instead of putting it in, you'll end up with nothing.

In this world, no one is born stupid, no one can't keep up with the math, and no one can't tell if you are true or not.

When you take advantage of the shouldn't take advantage of all, eventually also completely lose friends.

Rule No. 3: Don't give your friends negative energy.

In life, everyone is not easy in their own way.

Maybe when you feel sad and upset, friends can give appropriate comfort and company, but can't treat others as a trash can of emotions.

As adults, we all need to be able to handle things.

Don't put your stress on others, no matter how good your relationship is.

Maybe friends can accompany you to cry, accompany you to laugh, but "neither laugh nor cry" life, need you to face and bear.

Sometimes but to complain to friends, is a kind of mutual understanding and consideration.

Rule four: No matter how close you are, don't make decisions for others.

In life, there will always be moments when it's hard to make a choice.

What kind of work you do, who you hang out with, what kind of life you lead; As small as what to eat, what to use, what to buy, you have to do multiple choice.

You can offer suggestions and reminders, but don't make any decisions for others.

Everyone has a life to live.

What you think is good may not be good to others. What you think is bad may just be what others like.

No matter how good the relationship is, don't judge others in their lives in the name of "doing good for others."

Rule number five: Don't ask questions that you shouldn't.

Sometimes, because we know each other so well, we always ask about our friends' privacy.

Friends are willing to say, will take the initiative to tell you; If you don't want to, asking is unnecessary, and even embarrassing to each other.

In the relationship between people, the sense of propriety is particularly important.

Don't assume that your friends' problems are your own.

Sometimes, silent company is worth a thousand words.

Sometimes, pretending not to know is to give each other the greatest understanding.

Sometimes, not interfering too much is what's best for a friend.

Don't force people to talk about things they don't want to talk about, don't force people to mention the past they don't want to talk about, and don't touch the soft spots and scars of others.

Rule 6: Even if you don't stay friends, stay together.

Maybe once a good friendship, but also because of some inexplicable reasons will eventually drift apart, or even separate.

In fact, no matter whether the friendship between each other can last forever, say goodbye also do not have to tear face, more do not have to pester each other.

No matter who is right and who is wrong, no matter which is right and which is wrong, do not have to make a red face, do not have to hate each other.

If we can't continue to walk in the future in the name of friends, then good gathering and good parting is the greatest gratitude and gratitude to each other.

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