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Get Love Back - How to Win Back Your Ex and Mend Your Broken Heart

Dating,Relationships,Self Improvement

By Rahau MihaiPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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All you want is for love to come back into your life. To do so, you'll need to find a means to reclaim your ex and repair your wounded heart. But how do you do it? He trampled all over your heart, not just broke it. You're putting on a strong front right now, but your pals are starting to realize the truth; they could even say things like "He never deserved you" and tell you about this attractive man in their workplace. When all you can think about is Him and all you want is Him. And your wounded, sorrowful heart. So why hasn't he returned your calls or responded to your SMS or emails? Why does he no longer appear at the same locations (your locations)? Why is it that he is so averse to seeing you? Is he trying to avoid you? Because things aren't intended to be this way.

You were a pair, enjoying each other's company. It's even possible to bring up the subject of marriage and children. Purchasing a home. You were certain he was going to propose. But that was back in the day. It's 2 a.m., and you've had a few of beers, but you're still awake. With all that room where he should be, the bed is too huge and empty. As a result, you take out your phone... OK, I know you've heard of drunk dialing before, but let's click Pause and think about this for a bit, because if you go ahead and make that call, he may not respect you (and it's probable you won't respect yourself). And it's almost a certainty that your relationship won't stand a chance in the morning. So, what might you do instead to reclaim and maintain your love? Ask practically every man buddy for advise, and he'll tell you: Take a step back. Give your guy some breathing room. If everything you do appears to drive your ex farther away, you're probably correct, so adjust what you're doing. If you want to have a future together, that is.

Here's What You Shouldn't Do To Get Your Ex Back

Relationship pressure includes calling, emailing, messaging, asking his friends about him, and everything else he can think of. Men are turned off by neediness or clinginess, whining, smothering, and mothering. Anything that screams desperation is also a red flag. Here's a novel way to reclaim your love:

Put an end to any contact with him. EVERYTHING. Don't call, don't inquire about him, don't do anything. Instead, increase the intensity of your own life. Go out with your friends, enroll in a course, take a trip with your girls, and do everything you used to love before BH. Take up a new activity or interest, something entirely new to you, now that you have the time. Most crucial, keep yourself occupied. There will be no evenings spent rummaging around your flat, yearning for anything to watch on TV. Join a fitness center (or use the membership you already have). Attend a festival. Become a volunteer for any worthwhile cause. Spend more time with your family and friends. Get a part-time work and save the money for something really personal and significant to you, the individual, rather than simply you, the couple. Is it simple to reclaim love after your ex has abandoned you? No, it isn't. And, to be honest, it's conceivable that it won't be doable. But you can't know that until you try what works for the majority of couples, can you? In any case, you must gather yourself and take action if you want to be happy in your own life. Those similar behaviors will assist you in attracting others to share it with you, even your ex. Giving them some space right after the break-up is critical, according to the approach I discovered to gain love back. And it's understandable, since if you're not constantly there, he could (eventually) recognize that he misses you as much as you miss him. He'll be interested in how you're doing, who you're hanging out with, and what you're doing. You'll get a call from him. Isn't it a far cry from the depressing 2 a.m. scenario? Just as when you initially fell in love, you'll be on his thoughts, you'll be in a 'new,' more intriguing life, and you'll be the mysterious girl he wants to be closer to. To reclaim your love, you'll need a well-thought-out strategy for what to do (and what not to do), and you'll need to put it into action right away.

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Rahau Mihai

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  • Desmond Razzano2 years ago

    Thank you for this❤️‍🔥

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