From only fans to church

So this post is not about hating on anyone involved in this situation. I'm trying to bring a few things to light. Let's get into it.

Recently there was a young woman who quit only fans because she found God. Instantly Christian hate came through. Some people were saying that she didn't actually delete her profile. Others were saying that God would never truly forgive her for doing what she did. Both proves that Christians are hateful hypocrites. Not only are they lying about how God's forgiveness works but they are basically admitting to going on to a site they claim to hate to see if she lied about deleting her account.

The young lady in question is named Nala Ray. In her story Nala says she was in a rebellious part in her life when she joined only fans. She also said she didn't want to rely on a man. Rebellious independence is a strong force that is not always a bad thing. What I mean by that is we can rebel against society standards or other things that need to be rebelled against. We do need independence to make it in this world. Then a few years after being on only fans she met someone who prayed for her and helped her come back to the faith. A lot of people are questioning this pivot, both the why and the authenticity of it. Both are between Nala and God but we can still wonder.

I am disappointed with the Christians that are judging Nala or saying not so kind things about her. If this is how Christians act than no wonder people don't want to go to church. `People don't wanted to be shamed or judged for what they did in their lives. We all have pasts and if you look in the bible that is the main theme. God is love, grace, mercy, forgiveness and salvation.

I don't which is worse the men or the women shaming her. Men are saying how they would never want a "used woman" and how other men shouldn't want one either. First off referring to women as used is disrespectful, gross, toxic and highly demeaning. Second all you shouldn't tell other men what they should or shouldn't want, that is a deeply personal thing. Now you could teach young men about abuse and toxic behavior but let young men figure out what they want for themselves. Third off what if women talked about men in this manner, it would not go over well.

Women and men are talking about Nala and her body count. I don't know what the obsession is with people's body count. It's no-one's business but if someone does tell you their count you shouldn't judge them for it. According to Nala her body count isn't what it looked like on OF. She said that she would edit her videos so you couldn't tell that all her videos were done with her boyfriends. Then she would put a caption saying that she was just hooking up with someone she just met at the gym or a bar. She knew how to play the game and how to make money. This is why she was so successful.

There are people questioning if this is real and we won't know at least not for a while. There is a concern I have about her and her change. She changed a lot so fast that I wonder if she can keep this going. She quit her well-paying job then I think moved, changed what she was driving and then got married in such quick succession. It makes me wonder if it was too much too soon. I hope this is real and that Nala genuinely changed.