Flirting with middle-aged women is actually very simple. It is enough to talk about these three topics.

When it comes to middle-aged women, many people will have a solid impression in their minds, thinking that they are caring, mean and vulgar, difficult to approach, etc., which seem to be some negative words.

In fact, middle-aged women are no different from other people, they are just ordinary and ordinary women. It's just that they may have experienced world events and have more experience, and they will not be as easily coaxed as young girls, nor will they be transformed like men, so they will give people the impression that it is difficult to handle.

In fact, it is very simple to deal with a middle-aged woman. You only need to talk to her about these three topics, and your relationship will be closer unconsciously.

One: Talk about the trivialities in life

Middle-aged women are actually the most tiring group of people.

They are often a generalist, charging at the workplace while taking care of the trivialities in the family. So if you want to get closer to middle-aged women, it is better to talk to them about the trivial things in life.

Starting with these little things, on the one hand, these topics are safer, and they won't leave a deep impression on people or offend them. On the other hand, everyone encounters small things in life, and it is easy for everyone to find common topics and chat.

And for middle-aged women, some of the daily trivialities in life are the theme of their lives, and they are trapped in such trivialities every day.

But there are very few people who can talk to her about these things. Her husband often does not have the patience to listen. The children are young and may not understand the troubles and difficulties at all.

They torture these things every day, but there is no one to talk to. If you chat with them about these topics, they will find an outlet, and the chatterbox will naturally not be closed.

The more we talked, the closer the relationship naturally became.

Two: Talk about the gains and losses in relationships

If the relationship is a little closer, you can also chat with middle-aged women about the gains and losses in their relationship.

Every woman is a book, with her own unforgettable experience. Maybe they are now married women and mothers, but the white shirt senior in the bottom of my heart will still inadvertently tug at her heartstrings in the dead of night.

Talking to a middle-aged woman about emotional issues is actually a temptation.

Because this question is a bit deeper than the conversation of ordinary friends, if she is willing to chat with you about this topic, it means that you are already a close friend in her heart, and you can already talk about some more private topics.

If she is more repulsive and unwilling to talk to you about this topic, then you can also know what her position in your relationship is in her heart, and you can adjust your communication strategy and change the way of chatting.

Sometimes, a middle-aged woman will also have an emotional wound in her heart, but this wound cannot be told to anyone, because she already has another identity to bind her, so that she can only suppress the grief in her heart.

At this time, there is a person who can chat with her, and she will easily introduce the other party as a confidant.

Three: Talking about the difficulty of business

Middle-aged women are actually very hard in their careers. They often work harder than men to get the approval of their bosses.

Under China's current national conditions, a large part of the burden of the family is actually placed on women, and everyone tacitly believes that the family is the responsibility of women. It is common to hear interviewers asking middle-aged women how to balance the relationship between family and career, but few men are asked this question.

Therefore, middle-aged women have to bear a heavier burden in their careers. Once they make a mistake, others will say that it is because their family has a heavy burden and cannot be entrusted with heavy responsibilities.

And such things as promotions and salary increases often fail to fall on their heads.

So talk to middle-aged women about the difficulties they encounter in their careers. Every middle-aged woman may have something to say to you.

The grievances and injustices they have encountered, the criticism and discrimination they have faced in their careers, you are a vent for them, allowing them to express all the grievances in their hearts.

If you want to deal with middle-aged women, you need to know what kind of group they are.

They are realistic and rational, and at the same time emotional and gentle. As long as you find a good topic and find a breakthrough, your relationship with them will definitely reach a new level.