Experienced these things

01

At the moment when love is about to end, you may say to each other: "You have changed".

He began to be indifferent to you, no longer like the old care for you, love you, what you say he will not take to heart, even if you take the initiative to show good, he is still indifferent.

The more you cherish that person, the more you may end up not being able to keep him, the more you love him, the more he stays away and finally leaves.

Some feelings can withstand the test, just like the wine, over time, in the years, become more valuable, two people have experienced a lot of things together, through the test of God, no matter what happens in the future, will not be separated.

This kind of love, very rare, is a common experience, creating beautiful and steadfast, once warm moments and indelible memories, so that the two people hand in hand, heart to heart, together with each other.

If you are lucky enough to meet such love, you must remember to cherish it, because it is not easy to come by!

02

Cheng Feng and Xu Xiaoqiao couple, after graduating from college, chose to work together in the big city, at first, they squeezed into a twenty-something square foot rental house, the two of them earn a little salary, eat noodles all day, and there is usually little entertainment, just stay at home.

Cheng Feng knows in his heart, Xu Xiaoqiao because of accompanying himself, will choose to come to the big city to suffer, originally her parents have found her a good stable job in her hometown, but she refused, because she did not want a long-distance relationship, she was afraid of losing him, so willing to accompany him to the big city to make a breakthrough.

Cheng Feng is guilty, he felt that Xu Xiaoqiao should not live such a life, love someone, should give her happiness, he vowed in his heart must work hard, and earn a lot of money for her to spend, so that she can live a happy life.

At that time, to motivate himself, he also prepared a savings jar, he wanted to save a lot of money, and then buy a house, and propose to her, the two of them together forever.

From the beginning, Xu Xiaoqiao knew his mind, one day in the middle of the night, she secretly stuffed money into the money jar, just by the toilet light Cheng Feng bumped into, at that moment, he felt inexplicably heartbroken.

He hugged Xu Xiaoqiao tightly, two people who have been poor together, more know how to cherish the warmth and affection given to them by the other side, such two people, nothing can separate them.

After the two economic situations improved, the money to buy a house to get married, or love each other as before, because the two people remember each other in the most difficult time with each other, such feelings are rare.

03

As the saying goes, it's easy to share the sweetness, but it's hard to share the pain, if two people have suffered together, and have experienced a lot of things that others have not experienced, then such two people have long been connected, and become a real family.

Men and women can experience these together, want to separate is very difficult.

Meet both parents, also be recognized

Some people say that the love that is blessed is happier, in fact, I also think so, although the relationship is a matter of two people, the love that is not recognized by the parents, is often a chicken feather, a lot of trivial and contradictory will make the two people drift apart.

When two people have met both parents, and both parents agree and bless two people together, this time, your feelings have stabilized, and who can not break them up?

In the relationship, whether men, or women, are thirsty for a sense of security, two people have gone through the process of taking each other to meet their parents, and be recognized by each other's parents, the two hearts of the stone have fallen, love will also be more sweet and long.

So, don't think it's not important to see your parents if you want to be happy, then you must pass this hurdle and get the approval of both parents.

Through the bonding period, more know how to manage the relationship

A good relationship is inseparable from friction, in every relationship, there is a period of friction, after all, two people are independent individuals, have their judgment of things, and have their ideas.

I've read a novel with this sentence: "The thing about love is that it needs to be tempered, no one from birth is your natural lover, only mutual friction, will gradually become the most compatible with each other that person."

Indeed, if two people are holding the purpose of transforming each other into a relationship, the two people can only be separated in the end, because no one is the party who wants to be transformed.

If two people can understand each other, have tolerance, trust, grow together in this love, willing to communicate with each other their ideas, when the two people together through the bonding period, more know how to manage the relationship, then, the two people will only cherish each other's feelings, want to separate are difficult.

With the same sweetness and suffering, life's darkest moments also have each other as company

There is a saying that: companionship is the longest confession, which is true, companionship is the best way to love someone, no matter what time, to give each other company, is the best proof of deep love for a person.

Especially in each other encounter low and difficult moments, is the most need from the partner's warmth, if in each other's lives the most difficult time, you left, then you will not later.

People will cherish that critical moment with the side of friends, and lovers, the so-called difficulty seeing true love is probably this way, if you can only share the sweetness but can not share the pain, such feelings most do not go long.

If you say, in the darkest moments of life, you have each other as companions, you are willing to share the pain, to light up each other's lives, when you go through this stage together, nothing can separate you anymore, to always cherish this edge.

04

Writer Luo Shi said, "In fact, everyone does not understand love at the beginning, and the love of your life together to experience some things, and even go through some pain together, to become mature, only to know how to cherish."

In a relationship, what you have experienced together will help you grow and will allow you to better interpret love, understand love and cherish love.

When you have gone all the way, together with the sweet and sour, comforted each other, forgiving and understood each other, met each other's parents, were recognized, then the feelings between you, long ago indestructible.

The common experience between two people will make you empathize, will make you care more about each other, cherish that and you have experienced a lot of things with the person it, good company for the rest of your life.