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Expectations vs Reality.

Don't expect more from others.

By M.AkhtarPublished 3 years ago 3 min read
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Expectations vs Reality.
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Don’t take people for granted. That’s right. Don’t. No matter how nice people are, remember everyone has limits. Don’t cross that limit. Don’t make unrealistic demands on others because one day, they will snap! Sooner or later, they will. Don’t forget we’re only human!

Sooner or later, people will let you down; no matter how good they are. This is human nature; we all make mistakes and poor decisions from time to time. Remember, you came into this world alone and you depart from it alone. So depend on no one but yourself & the One who made you!

Be careful what you say to someone today.Tomorrow they might not be here& you can never take it back. You are the master of what you say until you utter it,once you deliver it,you're its captive.Remember,words have power to heal.Words have power to kill.Choose wisely.

We tend to assume people will always be there for us and we can appreciate them later.
What if that later never comes?
Don’t take things for granted.
Share your feelings, especially with loved ones and those close to you before it’s too late.

Don't test a person's patience. Everyone has their limits. They will endure & tolerate you for some time. Once it crosses the limit, they will answer back. Remember this always!

Don't be so hard on yourself. At the end of the day,remind yourself that you did the best you could today, and that is good enough. The Almighty is not looking for perfection. Far from it. As long as you're consistently trying and putting in real effort, that's all that matters.

Lower your expectations of others.
It’s the only sure way to avoid disappointment.
Trying so hard not to snap and hurt someone.
I believe most people forget the final stage, that one they'll snap, don't make someone the respect you fear you.

That's true, everything stay beautiful in a limit only. Once the limit is cross, it ruins even a well built relationships, it can be with anyone. So, trust only almighty & your family, be close with them, outsiders has no role in it. One comes & go, that's life,think before trust.

Mental pain is less dramatic than physical pain, but it is more common and also more hard to bear.
The frequent attempt to conceal mental pain increases the burden: it is easier to say, ‘My tooth is aching’ than to say, ‘My heart is broken.
When you suffer from depression 'I’m tired' means a permanent state of exhaustion that sleep doesn’t fix.
A big part of depression is feeling really lonely, even if you’re in a room full of a million people.

Everyone has intelligence. But the difference between good people and bad people is that the good people use their intelligence to do good things while bad people use it to do evil deeds. Now it's upto you to use your intelligence in doing good things and avoid bad things.

There’s a reason for everything that happens in your life. The Almighty will always put you where you need to be. Trust His plans though you may not understand it at that moment. Stop listening to people’s opinions of what’s going on. Have faith in the journey. He has your back!
Everything is the way it is for a reason. You’ve got to believe it. You’ve got to trust the Almighty’s plan for you. Whatever’s going on in your life, the journey continues. Nothing comes to a standstill. Have faith that it will all work out in the end.
When good things happen, pick the positives and move on.
When bad things happen, learn from it and move on.
Keep moving no matter what. Just make sure you're going in the right direction.


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