Dramatic Love: When Your Boyfriend Is Too Dramatic
Relationship life is not easy, especially for people with intense sensitivities.
The fact that your boyfriend is a sensitive man makes him more attractive at the beginning of the relationship, but you may have found yourself with an overly intense specimen.
We wonder what to do when you experience dramatic love, when your boyfriend is too intense.
What to do with a boyfriend with a tendency to drama
If three is a crowd when it comes to love, two is too many when it comes to drama. And for dramatic and intense we are already here.
So, if you have fallen in love with an intense man, with a special sensitivity and with a tendency to drama, it is still one of those sentimental problems that are difficult to solve.
And it is not that we want to promote gender stereotypes, but it is true that love drama, whoever it comes from, is difficult to manage for the other party.
That now that your infatuation has passed you have realized that your boyfriend's sensitivity is not such, but a tremendous insecurity that makes him see a danger in everything that surrounds you.
That's why he makes it a drama when you make plans with your girlfriends, when you go to spend a weekend at your parents' house without taking him by the hand, when you make new friends on Facebook, when you stay for a drink with your colleagues after work.
Wait, is this drama or is your boyfriend jealous? The alarm just went off.
That intense boyfriend who used to exude sensitivity from every pore has become a dangerous man according to your toxicity radar.
Especially if after an argument he makes you feel guilty, if he considers everything you say an attack or if you have ever seen him trying on your robe on the sly, the one you wear in the most dramatic moments.
Drama is not only for women
It is normal to hear that women are the dramatic ones in all relationships. We have the idea that men are more relaxed and it's true.
However, if you notice that your beau is already more dramatic than you, analyze the reasons why he is behaving this way.
Step away from your super dramatic boyfriend for a moment.
When you see him start one of his drama attacks, it's best to listen to him and then leave him alone for a while.
Don't try to argue with him because all you'll provoke is a fight. Being a drama king, the next time you argue he will reproach you for all the times you refused to finish his scene.
He may be insecure
Sometimes insecurity is not just a woman's issue. It is known that we tend to be more insecure either because of our physique or personality.
However, they can also be afraid to show themselves as they are, even to lose you.
If your boyfriend feels threatened with the idea that you are leaving him, he will let you know by claiming you for everything.
In these cases, the best thing to do is to show him how much you love him and that you are not going to leave him for anything.
What if you have stopped loving him?
Unfortunately, arguments and complaints can cause you to stop loving him.
If you feel that love is gone, talk to him and tell him how you feel. It is not good to be in a relationship where you no longer love the other person.
Always look for your happiness and if he is no longer with him, the best thing to do is to end the relationship.
Have you had a super dramatic boyfriend or know someone who has? Share your experience with us.
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