Delete a person

01

In life, there are many encounters, there is a time limit, some people are destined to be a passerby in your life, hurriedly come, and hurriedly go, did not leave a trace, you will never contact again.

Have you ever been deleted by the other side of the experience? The other party is a very important person to you, but when you chat with TA one day only to find that you have been deleted by the other party, is no longer a friend of TA.

This time, you should be very painful in your heart, it seems to be abandoned, there is no reason, probably because do not care anymore.

In fact, the more you grow up, the more you should understand that deleting a person is silent when your lives no longer intersect, the two people are already destined to drift apart later.

Although the heart will be sore, will be sad, will shed tears, will not know what to do, in the end, to relax, whether the person who deleted you is the person you once loved the most or your best friend, it does not matter, TA does not care about you, you do not have to care.

02

Heard a true story, Cheng Ying and Lan Lan are junior high school classmates, when the two they are the best, all days inseparable.

For three years in junior high school, plus three years in high school, they were always in the same school, and whenever they had time, they talked together.

There was a time when Cheng Ying's grades were dropping and she was in a bad mood, and Lan Lan was always by her side to give her comfort.

On each other's birthdays, they would prepare elaborate gifts for each other, and they simply thought that they would remain friends for the rest of their lives.

However, when they went to college, they had different dreams and wanted to live different lives, and they didn't keep in touch with each other often.

After graduating from college, Cheng Ying stayed in the big city and Lan Lan returned home to find a stable job, got married, and had children.

Although they also tried to talk about each other's interests, long ago there was no longer the feeling of the year, more like the most familiar strangers, Cheng Ying worked hard for three years, and finally achieved some results, which can be rooted in the big city life.

The first time, she shared her joy with Lan Lan, but Lan Lan only replied with a cold ", oh oh," and at that moment, Cheng Ying knew that the two of them could never go back to the past.

After some time, Cheng Ying chatted with Lan Lan again, but she found that she had been deleted by Lan Lan. She was so sad that she shed tears, but she still wished Lan Lan happiness in her heart.

03

The people who delete you are those who do not care about you, if you care about yourself, how can TA be willing to delete you?

When you are deleted by a person you care about, you must be lost, is sad, you will think back to when you were together, they said every word, think back to whether they did something wrong, is not the wrong words, the other party will do so.

Delete your people, do not care about your people, TA think you do not need to contact in the future, so delete you, there is no need to know with you, want to delete on the delete.

Since this is the case, why do you need to be sad, perhaps from the beginning, TA is just a hurried passerby in your life, TA will go sooner or later, the heart is not here in your people, can not stay.

Shanshan and the former is because of the removal of the separation when they fought, the two sides began a cold war, too many times in front of Shanshan took the initiative to find him and beg, but she did not want to go on like this, so she wanted to wait for the former initiative once.

The result is that she did not wait to take the initiative, and did not wait to break up, waiting for the "other party has deleted you".

When she finally couldn't resist sending him a WeChat, she found that her ex had deleted her, which made her very confused, the two people were just cold war, and didn't mention the breakup, how to silently delete her? She really can't figure it out.

But the results have said everything, his heart is not hers, or that he has long been looking forward to breaking up, just can not find the right reason, now the cold war, in turn, has become a success for him.

When you are deleted by others, the system did not alert me first, it is because it is afraid that you will lose control on the spot.

When you delete someone else, the system will ask you an "OK" or "cancel", is to allow you to backtrack.

TA does not care about you and will delete you, there is no need to be sad for TA, can easily leave you, people, that you are not worth mentioning to TA, after the rest of your life, or find the right person together.

04

If you find that the other party deleted you, then you also delete the TA, no need to be sad because of the person who deleted you, to live for themselves.

When you find yourself deleted, may be heartbroken, sad, is heartbroken, because TA is very important to you, you can not accept TA just quietly leaving you.

Many partings are silent. Finally, the two people did not even say goodbye, and from then on they drifted apart.

Sadness and how, heartache and how, life, as usual, there is no need for the initiative to leave your sad, from now on, or live for themselves, live their own lives.

Perhaps, we all have this experience, by a certain person deleted, pulled black, but they know nothing about it, until one day, sent a message to TA, only to find that TA has long disappeared in their list, this time, must have a normal heart.

The people who stay, will never go, can not stay people, even if you are good to TA again, TA will still leave.

To delete your people, no need to complain, no need to resent, no need to miss, from now on, the two people do passers-by, who do not bother who, each live their own lives.

You will understand sooner or later, delete a silent person, a person from your world away, is also the same, do not care.