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Cheaters Who are Women are More Successful

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By Lora LimePublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Cheaters Who are Women are More Successful
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Cheating is one of the numerous reasons a relationship might terminate.

Men and women cheat for a variety of reasons, but have you ever considered why men are caught cheating more frequently than women?

Men cheat more, but not by a large proportion - they only have a 5% advantage over women.

However, in the last 20 years, there has been a significant shift in the gender of cheaters, with a 40% to 50% rise in females committing adultery.

"Twenty percent of men cheat," says Manhattan-based psychiatrist Dr. Kenneth Rosenberg, author of "Infidelity: Why Men and Women Cheat." It's 15% for women, but that percentage has increased by 50% in the last 20 years."

Women are not only cheating more frequently, but they are also getting away with it. This isn't something I made up; it's backed up by scientific evidence.

So, why do women get away with it more easily than men?

Here are a few of them:

Signs are given by males, but not by women

When a new lady enters a man's life, he begins to change; he begins to give indications, some subtle and others not so. A modest change in haircut, a new fragrance, increased exercise, growing a beard, or shaving clean might all be symptoms. To put it another way, he begins to work on his looks without warning; tiny indicators.

He may claim that while his partner's indications were concerning, there was nothing wrong with taking care of himself.

When he starts talking less to his wife/GF — whether on his phone, watching TV, or doing anything else — he is not interested in having as many discussions as he used to; one of the not-so-subtle signals.

A lady, on the other hand, will not offer you any indications. Nothing has changed in her demeanor, habits, or appearance. Every day, she'll fuck another man — a neighbor, an acquaintance, or a family — while seeming absolutely normal. Her boyfriend/husband presumably sees this man on a daily basis, but he will never know.

Men have a difficult time reading women's unfaithfulness, and science backs them up—...there may not be any genuine clues to unfaithfulness in women's looks, and women may be more prone to participate in semi-permanent cosmetic modifications such as brow shape or eyelash extension that might impact their perceived unfaithfulness.

Sexual infidelity may be inferred with some accuracy from men's faces, but not from women's faces, according to new research published in the Royal Society Open Science journal.

The Mistress wants to take the wife's place, but the F**kboy is satisfied with only sex.

This is cheating women's largest advantage over cheating men: the guys they're fucking are content to keep playing f**kboys without ever attempting to improve their relationship dynamics and status.

They don't want to be the new spouse or boyfriend; all they care about is the sex. They will not do anything to jeopardize this agreement, making it simpler for women to cheat.

Cheating men's mistresses, on the other hand, aren't happy with just being f**kgirls; they want more. They prioritize love and relationships, and a purely sexual relationship is only conceivable when they are the cheaters.

Mistresses are actively seeking to replace the wife/GF by demanding more, calling, texting, and maybe confronting the wife/GF in order to break up the relationship and become the new wife/GF.

Men don't think of the long term as much as women do

A guy will never forgive his unfaithful wife/GF, and the relationship will almost invariably end in divorce. Cheating women may face serious penalties in some instances. Women are aware of this; they prepare ahead and consider long-term to keep their side connection hidden, lowering their chances of being discovered.

"Women typically think more contextually, so you don't always catch them." Before acting, they give considerably more thought to the long-term vision and the ramifications." Biological anthropologist Helen Fisher, Ph.D., and main scientific advisor for online dating services Match and Chemistry

In this location, cheating guys have bad luck. Their capacity to consider the long-term ramifications of cheating is hampered by high testosterone levels.

"When patients are given testosterone, it increases their focus on the "here and now" while decreasing their long-term vision." —Henrietta Fisher

Men are too preoccupied to snoop; women are not

Last but not least, males spend the majority of their time at work; generating money is their top priority. They don't have time to snoop on their wife/GF, allowing women to cheat freely.

Women, in comparison to males, have more free time to observe and research their husbands/BFs when they discover warning indicators.

Tip

When a lady is discovered cheating, it is because she planned it. It's her method of expressing her dissatisfaction with her husband/BF and her desire to end their relationship.

Based on a conversation I had with a female friend.

Please accept my apologies for the article's lack of sophistication. Please accept my apologies if it upset you.

Cheating isn't cool; it causes emotional suffering and, in certain cases, leads to criminal activity. Before beginning on this perilous path, talk to your spouse about your relationship.

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Lora Lime

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