Becoming "Attractive" Won't Get You Women, But These Will

Attraction" alone won't get more women into your life.

I think men have become conditioned to believe that, but it's really just marketing.

"How To Attract Women WITHOUT Saying A Word"

"3 Easy Ways To Attract More Women"

"10 Bad Boy Traits To Instantly Attract Women"

All that shit. Attraction does play a part- but only a part.

I've been trying to pick up girls for the past ten years. One of my biggest breakthroughs happened when I realized this:

Women go out with, have relationships with, and sleep with guys they feel comfortable around.

COMFORTABLE. That doesn't include being super amazing, charismatic, having the best "Game" in the world or whatever. It simply says you're normal enough to make people feel good about you, allowing them to open up to you.

Here's how it looks like in reality.

#1 You aren't result-oriented 

If your goal is to get laid desperately or get "as many women as you can", you're already losing. Women will sense that needy vibe coming off you (and you WILL be needy, trust me). You'll find yourself asking, "HmMm, AhHh, but why is she ignoring/ghosting me?" Well, this is why.

#2 You appreciate women

We all want to feel appreciated for who we are and what we have to offer in life- other than just being "hot" or good looking. If you can appreciate women for who they are as a person, and not only as a pussy, you'll already stand out. Once you shift your attention to appreciating her and express that in words, your interactions and the "results" you get will be on a whole new level. Let her know what you like about her.

#3 You have nothing to prove to yourself or your friends

I think all men have to prove themselves something regarding women at a certain stage in their lives. The trick is, if you let this sort of mindset take over, it becomes really hard to get women. Because girls notice that. They'll feel like you're not in it for them- but simply for you. You're thinking win-lose, and that's pretty much game over.

#4 You can have meaningful conversations

When I say "meaningful", I don't necessarily mean conversations about love and enlightenment (not in a bar at 2 AM, anyway.) I mean conversation about what she does for work and why, her interests, etc. These are the sort of conversations that make both sides feel at ease- and make everything feel more "real". Like you actually give a shit. This is where she starts to view YOU as a person.

#5 You have a job

Don't tell me your job doesn't make any difference because it is. It's not only your "Game" or whatever your pickup coach wants you to believe. Having a job like a normal person says you got your act together, and you're not some idiot who stays up all night playing World Of Warcraft. Don't be the guy that hangs out at the gym by day and at the bar by night.

#6 You're clean and groomed

Super important. If you're clean and well-groomed, it lets people know you care about yourself. That you invest the minimum time and effort one should put into his aesthetics. Don't expect women to jump on you if your beard isn't trimmed and your teeth are bright yellow. Not to mention bad breath. Please make sure you smell nice.

#7 You have a life

This sums up what I'm trying to say here. I think men who take responsibility for their lives and have a general sense of happiness do WAY BETTER than others. It makes them MEN, not some kiddos who can't deal with anything.

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